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Am i crazy to think this is some modicum of fate?

Last night I realized (at almost the exact same time that he did) that this sweet guy on here was someone from EP I had been super tight with 7 years ago.

It was so long ago that we don't even remember whyy we stopped speaking, but I went to my email and searched his old username...I had actually saved some of my old posts and comments, and he was present in that search like 5x.

I had, in fact, made a complimentary post about him back then...and when I showed him what I had written, the memories came flooding back to us.

I know it was "just a website" and i am likely an "online loser" for bonding with "hot babes all day", but we used to talk on the phone even.

At the time, I had lived with a scary alcoholic roommate (who I also believe is a murderer, long story), and he met me in that hopeless place and made me feel better. We spoke on the phone 1.5 hours this morning, and realized we had even posted very similar baby pics here.

When we spoke, he told me he had set his SW profile to delete, that it takes 72 hours, and that we had realized who each other are during the last 30 minute countdown before deletion.

Even if our fate was only to re-find a cool friend, I feel like this wasn't a mistake. Y'all have to understand..I had been off SW for like 6 years, and only came back a few weekssss ago.
I don't think it was a mistake either.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Awww this make my heart swell. Welcome back even more. I think I know who this is referring to and he's super awesome.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@Starcrossed awww tysm..somehow just seeing this!
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
That's flucking lovely! I'm glad you "got" each other in time.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@AntisocialTroll tysm!! i thought it mad crazy. we caught up on soo many things and even discussed the crazy issues of the day, agreeing on all of them lol
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
@foldedunfolding This was really a lovely thing to read and I'm well chuffed for you both.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@AntisocialTroll aww thank you so much..good GRAVY i love the word chuffed!!
originnone · 56-60, M
meh....I think it's pretty cool. Remember Sarcasmqueen? I still miss her.....
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@originnone i do!! but where the heck have you been, in your own right 😪
That's so awesome
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@Bexsy haha thank you. i thought/think so too! we were tumbling over our words and speaking over each other bc we were so excited haha
@foldedunfolding I'm so happy for you. I wish I could find someone like that. Congratulations!
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@LadyGrace aww tysm hun!!!
Now you can count yourself lucky.
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@Thewhazzupdude i can indeed!
DrWatson · 70-79, M
That sounds beautiful to me.

I certainly don't see how this makes you a "loser."

And I am a firm believer in emotionally intimate (nonsexual) friendship between men and women. Even if you "only" rediscovered a good friend, you found something precious.
Oooh...I love a good feel story .

It kinda reminds you what we all hope this is all about: connection 🤗
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@OogieBoogie so well-said! i have plenty of friends irl and such..but is there true [i]connection[/i]
Is he staying here now?
foldedunfolding · 36-40, FVIP
@Thewhazzupdude yes, thus far! and if not, he has my number and i have his ♡

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