Does anyone else not feel confident going out without makeup?

@PatKirby ok but my whole point was, I feel better about myself when I am wearing makeup. So my self-esteem and feeling good is tied to the way I look. Doesn't really have anything to do with my friends accepting me.

@sweetcheekz
If it costs the expense of putting makeup on your face to feel better about yourself, makeup is not the problem.

@sweetcheekz
Here, try this.

[i]Forget [/i]about other people. They're too busy thinking about themselves anyway.

Concentrate on yourself. [i]You [/i]know your value as a person. You don't need anyone else's help [i]just to be yourself[/i].

Your confidence will begin to show on its own. Before you know it, others will notice and be attracted to you.

Start with that.

@PatKirby wow u make being a girl in 2021 sound so simple. Some of the advice is good, some I don't really need cause I'm already good with, the other stuff is not really realistic because you are coming at it from a your perspective which is fine but it leaves out a lot.

@sweetcheekz
Ok, so are you saying you cannot be yourself? That you have to act like you're somebody else for people to accept you?

@PatKirby Why are you under the impression that putting on makeup somehow makes you a completely different person?

@sweetcheekz
Let me clarify something. Real confidence comes from the inside, not the outside. Good luck.

@PatKirby that's not really clarifying your last statement, you are just making a completely different statement.