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I Am Insecure About My Looks

Do looks actually matter in a relationship?
cucupp · 36-40, M
i think it matters and would depend on the person you are in a relationship with. Different people would have different concepts of beautify. If someone is in a relationship with you it must be that he likes you for who you are.
Even if people considers you the most beautiful person, some people may not still be attracted to you cause for a relationship the beauty is looks, personality and the attitude towards the relationship
GentleJoe · 61-69, M
I'm sure it depends on the person. But, I'm sure there has to be some kind of "chemistry" between people for a relationship to blossom. Looks may be a part of it, but its always just that "something" that attracts one person another.
selina12 · 36-40, F
@GentleJoe yeah that "something" is very important in a relationship...More than a look there should be a magnetic attraction.
GentleJoe · 61-69, M
@selina12 And its impossible to predict what will cause that magnetic attraction.
Nining · F
I also insecure about how I look,spend so much time in front of mirror to do makeup everyday and choosing which clothes I should wear , but I feel maybe is normal for most women to be concerned about how she look, I want to look as attractive as possible and try to look more attractive than other women
iamnikki · 31-35, F
to a certain extent. I need the person to look neat and decent at all times. I'm not concerned about him being draped in name brands and jewelery. That's all.
Trevo · 26-30, M
As much as they play a role in your partner being sexually attracted to you. Other than that, no.
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Effloresce · 26-30, F
Yes I think so, even if it’s unconscious
selina12 · 36-40, F
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
I think there should be a physical attraction for a relationship.
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
I’m kind of the same. People have told me I’m crazy.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Yes it does matter
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missit15 · 56-60, M
unforntunately yes... but people eventualy look past that and if they really learn who you are the see the real beauty inside...
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Most important for early impressions. They still matter throughout but as you get past initial attraction to emotional bonds there is some more flexibility

 
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