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Well that’s it a big step forward, I have a date.

I accepted the offer of a date at Easter. He’s staying over in a local hotel and hopes to spend a long weekend with me. This is a huge deal for me as I have never been on an official date.
Things are rushing through my head:
Make up or not ,normally I don’t bother but should I?
What will I wear, money is limited so it will have to be something I already own and will it fit?
What if I need the toilet, do I just ask him to step out as I use the commode or do I try to get to the loo?
What on Earth will I talk about.?
Will he see me and run?
I asked him about some of this an in a very useful way he told me not to worry to dress and behave normally.
This is not normal so any advice would be welcome.
Thank you
If you haven’t read my other posts I’m a very obese housebound lady looking for someone.
justanothername · 51-55, M Best Comment
Talk about things that interest you. You will probably find that you have very similar interests … like food. Every body eats food and we all have our favorites.

Ask him questions about himself.

If it makes you feel better about yourself then put on the best outfit that you have. Put on some nice perfume.

Brush your teeth. Smile :)

If things go really well you could ask he he would rather sleep at your place than at the hotel. :)
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I need to try on the outfit foods a great topic the asking him to sleep hear seems bold thank you @justanothername
justanothername · 51-55, M
@Fatalice Sometimes it’s better to ask questions like that up front to avoid the anxiety of uncertainty.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Thank you@justanothername

Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well I totally blew the first date but he came back for more
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Lol thank you@Notfatenough
Notfatenough · 46-50, M
@Fatalice You're welcome. :)
BlightyBoy · 26-30, M
@Fatalice Oh that's awesome! Sorry to hear the first date was a bust, but how did the 2nd one go? Did you ask him to help you with stuff & and be lazy around him etc like some people suggested you should?

How did you handle the commode issue? (Guessing just asking him to leave the room for a bit would have been easier for you?)

See, it's never too late to find someone! :)
Fatalice · 41-45, F
With him being a feeder it seems a lot of things you should do you would normally hide so things I have been advised to to.
Eat a lot. And talk about food..
If the outfits too tight so much the better.
Fat hanging below the hem is good.
Move little but if you do show how much work it is for you.
Ask For his help to move.
Be lazy ask for him to get stuff for you.
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Fatalice · 41-45, F
God I know I was a mess@OldMan70
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I have heard of these things called dates. Been so long that I have had one I have forgotten what they are like!

SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP
Just be careful because you don't know them.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@SatanBurger safety first always
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well mum was here as we moved the date to this weekend he’s been over tWice@zonavar68
Fatalice · 41-45, F
@SatanBurger thank you
Fa8393 · 41-45, M
So how did it go ? I think its great your getting a chance to meet new people . But I would say food is there for you .
arceus23 · 36-40, M
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Thank you@arceus23
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I haven't dated since I left my second ex in 2018 but just be yourself. You'll have all sorts of emotions going on.
Lyndawifeandmom · 36-40, F
Have you met him yet ?
Fatalice · 41-45, F
No a change of plan has brought it forward to this Sunday.@Lyndawifeandmom
Lyndawifeandmom · 36-40, F
@Fatalice I know you're excited ...
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I gave him the sad eyes he’s coming in 4 hours , I’m panicking @Lyndawifeandmom
Lostpoet · M
I'm glad you've found someone.
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Yes I never expected this eeek@Lostpoet
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Yes at this moment I don’t know who myself is lol
Bumbles · 51-55, M
Why all weekend?
Fatalice · 41-45, F
He wants to get to know me, so we can watt up around each other@Bumbles
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
How did you meet him?
Fatalice · 41-45, F
Oh here@Jenny1234
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
just be yourself
Fatalice · 41-45, F
I hope so@Moneyonmymind
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Fatalice some people can't even get a date so you're not doing too bad
Fatalice · 41-45, F
That was me till I came on here @Moneyonmymind
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Fatalice · 41-45, F
Well we’re now dating and he’s happy to help in all areas and the first date was a disaster but he came back @Paulypeeps

 
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