How he made me feel

I am a BBW. I watch alot of older tv shows from the 80s. It never fails that in at least one of the episodes they make fun of fat women. A man rejects her or they make a snide comment about fat women. She's never the object of a man's affection.
I spent so many years of my life thinking that I would be lucky to find a man who would look past my weight and appreciate my personality. It wasn't until I was in college that I found a man who lusted after plus-sized women. He made me feel like a sexy woman. I have never felt that way since. I still think about him and miss that feeling. I know that many men prefer BBWs, but It's so powerful when someone makes you feel desirable even when you don't feel it yourself.

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Cheesecake · 61-69, M

Dreadful 70s and 80s attitudes - and it's only changing slowly.
I remember a comparatively recent Toyota Corolla advert on tv in the uk which was based on the old swingers party premise of car keys in the fruit bowl on the table and you go with whoever's keys you pick. The "joke" was apparently on the guy who got the keys of the larger woman in the room. I vowed then and there I would never buy a Toyota. Can't stand prejudice of any kind - nor poking fun at people's physical appearance.
I have no particular preference for a bbw but then don't really have a "type" as such. All women are equally beautiful and attractive to me if the whole package is right - and I can personally testify how sexy a larger woman can be (apologies for the slight humble brag lol 🤭).
I hope you find someone to give you back that feeling 😊