Back in high school, when I first started dating, I never quite understood why I had to CHOOSE someone to date. Why couldn't I just date all my friends? Why can't I just be in a relationship with everyone, all at once? After graduating, and experiencing more of life, I've come to realize that polyamorous is just the only relationship style that really works for me. I need to be able to pursue whatever connections I like. I need to be able to love who I love.