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Is it normal after 1 month of getting to know each other the woman I really like already talked about planning our future together?

FYI she's Chinese who was born in China. Does love always feel like a business transaction with Chinese women? No offence intended... I am half Chinese myself.
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IM5688 · 70-79, M
Yes, love almost always feel like a business transaction with Chinese women. Based on my experiences, love to them isn't about being passionate, romance or sex, but rather more about caring for their partner. Yes, and many Chinese women have the attitude of, "Okay, I'm interested in you, but what can you do for me." Chinese women can be warm and loving before you marry them, but once you are married, that warmness goes away.
I have said, "I love you" and the response I get back is "thank you." There is little or no cuddling, hugging, etc.
Tinkerxbell · 36-40, F
@IM5688 Seriously, I feel for you. *hugs*
IM5688 · 70-79, M
@Tinkerxbell Thank you. I happily accept your hugs and send you return hugs. Feel free to DM me anytime if you'd like to.
Never dated Chinese . Would like to
@Floki not worth it
LILPapi69 · 46-50, M
Asian , Filipino , japanese , chinese , oriental make great House Wife's
pdockal · 56-60, M
Everybody is different
Bonby2 · 61-69, M
Which half of you is Chinese?
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
That is not normal..maybe 6 months or more.
Is there any love there ?
Tinkerxbell · 36-40, F
@Midlifemale My point exactly!
dale74 · M
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Not normal to move that fast
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
You must be familiar with the joke about what a lesbian brings on a second date.
Nightwings · F
I think there are definitely some cultural differences clashing, and as a bi person myself I also second the theory that lesbian couples often tend to move very fast lol. I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong, but you should discuss it with her if it makes you uncomfortable. Don't go along with something you're not comfortable with, just treat the topic respectfully and let her know you feel. Discuss where to go from there. {=
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
I agree with some of the comments..
She's a scammer...and will steal everything you have and your idenity
faery · F
It may be a stereotype but it's common for lesbians to quickly escalate the status of relationship
ineedadrink · 56-60, M
Is this the woman you were recently pinning over as she couldn't make up her mind?
Tinkerxbell · 36-40, F
@ineedadrink No another girl.
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
no....sounds like a scam
HumanEarth · F
We were only dating a few months and that few turned out to be nearly 30 years together and we're still going strong.

Sometimes, you just have to tell the brain to shut the fuck up and let the heart speak
Tinkerxbell · 36-40, F
@HumanEarth Thanks so much for your inspiration. *hugs*
fun4us2b · M
Initial infatuation can do that....
Tinkerxbell · 36-40, F
@fun4us2b yeah... perhaps.
fun4us2b · M
@Tinkerxbell Not necessarily a bad thing...worth looking past it and let things progress normally if you care for each other.
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Different strokes for different folks. Remember to be honest about your feelings. No one likes to be duped about expectations or have their important decisions rely on "Maybe"'s.
Northwest · M
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