Homosexuality is not a political statement, it is not a "cool kids club". It does not make you special, it does not make you better or worse than anybody else.
I do not want to be "better" than heterosexual people. I don't want my life to be a political statement, I don't want my love to be a political statement.
I don't want my love to be fetishized, I am not porn.
All I want is to be able to go out in public with my girlfriend without getting yelled at from passing cars, without getting second glances or rude looks, even without people congratulating us or telling us we are "so brave".
I just want to hold her hand and not be afraid.
I don't want any drama on this post. If you can't handle science or are a homophobic fetishist then just go away because nobody wants you here. I have no control over my sexual orientation and I if I did I'd choose to be heterosexual so I wouldn't have to deal with retarded people.
@Lila15 Science will not solve this societal problem. Science can't even win the argument of evolution because blind faith doesn't acknowledge fact based information.
I have had rigorous debates with a religious friend of mine who insisted that there was no gay gene and that it was environmentally causation that was behind it but to this day I'm pissed off that religious nutters are always trying to classify homosexuality as environmentally caused because honestly a child has no influence over his or her environment just as they have no influence over their genes. I didn't "Choose" my family. I wouldn't have wished the struggles with money for instance we go through on myself. I would have wanted to be born to a Filthy Rich family and be even more privileged than I am now. i'm just saying. Children are not able to pick the circumstances they're brought up in any more than they are their genes so either way being Homosexual is not a choice.
I didn't "Choose" to be straight either. I just am. It's an inherent thing.
Be who you are and to heck with what others think ,, they are the ones with a problem ,, Life is to short not to enjoy what you want to enjoy ,, you have a long life to live … live it as you want ,,,,
@SW-User Don't feel like debating with people over stuff that's backed up by science already. Being around toxic people on the internet can just damage my mental health even more. Struggled with my own orientation for my whole life and was severely bullied (suicide baited) for being sga.
Also, this was kind of a vent post that I just made to cope with my suicidal thoughts but I decided to pin it so I'll get less messages from incel fuckbois
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@Tubbs I understand. I don't blame you. I know how it feels to struggle with self identity myself. Best wishes to you. 🌹
I fully sympathize with your desire but you still have a journey ahead before your orientation gains general acceptance. I hope you can hang in mean while.