I used to have a "friend with benefits" whose sole benefit was to snuggle me.

@RedGrizzly haha aww am i? thank you so much

@foldedunfolding yup! I see it as remaining in purity. Don't know why. Maybe because of the all the hoe activities people take on and gets blasted on the media. Lol

@RedGrizzly that's really sweet. you made me have a bit of an epiphany just now, actually. my family has always blamed me for men doing me wrong, verdict-ing that it is because of my GUILT that i ever expected goodness from them..but it was, ironically, my innocence that put me in those positions of trying to find love in all the wrong places.

@foldedunfolding ooooooh, I know the type. The genuine pure of heart. 😁 Yeah, sometimes ya try to keep seeing the good in people and they would be like you in that they wouldn't do you wrong either...but there are people out there from different walks of life, with their own ways of conducting themselves and they're corrupt in their thinking and their heart. Not you're fault that they can't see how they're harming those around them nor is it because you're just trying to make cover for anything you've done that's not so good either. There are weirdos out there that no matter what happens they are just off in their own world. Js. I have examples lmao.