Anal and submission

@MrsRachelEvans Would you like mine ?

@PatientlyWaiting25 you really need to demonstrate for all of us!

@PatientlyWaiting25 As Eric Morecambe used to say,"theres no answer to that.."

@PatientlyWaiting25 It is beautiful, yes.

@Northwest did you write this?

@Strike30 This takes me a while to get up I don't know if I could go bigger lol 🫪

@PatientlyWaiting25 maybe waering a nice big plug afterwards will help

@Panamared well she gets action too so no but I don't feel challenged with vaginal sex

@PatientlyWaiting25 challenged?

@samueltyler2 both but also the fact it's a little bit naughty

@PatientlyWaiting25 i guess it is, but there are so many nerve endings in that region, i thought there might be more than just naughty.

@samueltyler2 sure, water first flowing in feels amazing.

@samueltyler2 thanks x

@InstructHer Please pardon my naivety, is that a Double Insertion?

@Sequoia51 no, it is an anal plug with a shield.

@PatientlyWaiting25 I’m not trying, I’m just saying. Real men are defined by real actions, not by empty talk on the internet. And they satisfy themselves more than their partner. This is what most ordinary perverted psychopaths do — for whom a picture, text, or even a voice is a trigger for orgasm. And, as a rule, and for the most part, they remain invisible and anonymous to everyone. Real men, as a rule, respect themselves and don’t stoop to such baseness and circus‑like behavior. In my opinion, the virtual DOM is a caricature, a fake version of a real man. And usually, it’s far from ideal men who play these games. Or, more precisely, they’re not men at all in the figurative sense of the word. Besides, it’s a perversion of modern life — virtual love, sex, including dominance and submission, and much more. It’s killing us as individuals, as people. A surrogate life is not life, it’s mere existence, like a beetle in a matchbox. There’s nothing good about it. Only the destruction of the psyche, and as a result, degradation. Moreover, it’s mutual. Masturbation will never replace an orgasm from real, live intercourse, from real interaction. Masturbation, as a consequence of virtual sex, is a kind of emptiness. Complete emptiness — both physical and emotional. An orgasm in vain. A shot in the dark.

@varav Oh I understand what you're saying now, I would agree, that the relationship I have online is far less than a real-life D/s relationship that is both physical and emotionally connecting. There is no way either of us can provide fully what each other needs and we both know that that is impossible.

Masturbation is also far less than a loving sexual encounter. It's never a like for like substitute but does that mean we don't do it? Or that if we do we feel degraded? No. It meets our needs in the moment, and that's ok.

But, regarding what you said

"In my opinion, the virtual DOM is a caricature, a fake version of a real man. And usually, it’s far from ideal men who play these games. Or, more precisely, they’re not men at all in the figurative sense of the word. Besides, it’s a perversion of modern life — virtual love, sex, including dominance and submission, and much more. It’s killing us as individuals, as people. A surrogate life is not life, it’s mere existence, like a beetle in a matchbox. There’s nothing good about it. Only the destruction of the psyche, and as a result, degradation."

You seem to have formed very strong opinions on this, usually that happens because of personal experience that didn't go well so I'm assuming that you were seeking something and you got "played online" otherwise how would you know?

After 20 years in a D/s dynamic I understand a lot about the intricacies of this kind of relationship. I have had lots of conversations with"dominant men" and I can tell the difference between a man who is a wannabe dom playing at it (You definitely do get those sadly) and a man who is naturally dominant, has real life experience of a D/s relationship but is not in a position to have a real life relationship right now. There is nothing caricature about this man I'm choosing to submit to, I feel safe with him and he's meeting my needs for right now. My mind needs the peace the feeling of being able to submit brings, that is what I am experiencing. Peace. I'm not feeling degraded.

@SecretSquirrel it would do damage if I didn't use enough lube and I didn't take time to let my body adjust.

@PatientlyWaiting25 so much time!