Dominance And Submission I have a question from a fellow Dom he is considering making a lady...

SubmissivelyMe · 46-50, F Best Comment

I believe that if she's expressed that she's poly and that she's exploring that, then a Dom should expect the possibility of conflicts. she would likely submit to just one Dom if he provided a strong level of control and is a natural Dom who wouldn't greatly lessen his dominant strength over time. she'd be suspicious of any relationship with a singular Dom if any Dom had been disinterested in her submission or had been severely lax in the past while simultaneously refusing to release her.

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HootyTheNightOwl

Nah... I'm out of Dodge.

My Domme senses have me wondering if she would ever be mine or will she just submit to anyone who calls themselves "Dom/me".

I will do Dom share when I see that I can help a sub better serve her main Dom in that way - but if I'm led to believe that I am their only Domme, then I expect that to be the case or I'm out.

helenS · 36-40, F

There are more dominant men than submissive women. That's why you guys have to play the game in accordance with [u]her[/u] rules.
In a sense it's the submissive woman who dominates the scenery.

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

I think she had a bad experience
There needs to be trust and confidence between them
Going too quickly

Ironhand · 51-55, M

Absolutely she has. That's why there are stages to entering a dynamic.

Belladonna · 41-45, F

Sounds to me like she's made a choice already, yes.

Strict4u · 56-60, M

Sounds like she already made her choice

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

That was my thought ,and i told him that ,he hopes its just a one time thing that happened.

pdockal · 56-60, M

Kinda hard to control anybody over the internet regardless of the situation especially when trust isn't established

They just close the account and or block you when they're thru with you

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

She has madr her choice and was released by her old dom