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Dominance And Submission

I have a question from a fellow Dom he is considering making a lady his sub ,she has said that she is considering several Doms and has not submitted to any of them or a choice yet.
They talked along time yesterday and she became disrespectful to him he told her she would be punished for that she agreed to a punishment, he offered a sexual punishment and play telling her she will not stop till she has an orgasm , she said she couldn't do that because another Dom had punished her by making her insert a plug for to hrs and forbid her to play or have an orgasm . now he is wondering by submitting to the other Dom and having sex play with him does that mean she made a choice and chose the other Dom already as her new Dom .
olderuncle944
70-79, M
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SubmissivelyMe · 46-50, F Best Comment
I believe that if she's expressed that she's poly and that she's exploring that, then a Dom should expect the possibility of conflicts. she would likely submit to just one Dom if he provided a strong level of control and is a natural Dom who wouldn't greatly lessen his dominant strength over time. she'd be suspicious of any relationship with a singular Dom if any Dom had been disinterested in her submission or had been severely lax in the past while simultaneously refusing to release her.
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SubmissivelyMe · 46-50, F
@olderuncle944 I would need more than one Dom if I have a Dom, but a single Master would be okay
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@SubmissivelyMe so what are you really looking for just a master .
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@SubmissivelyMe I reread your comment i do understand your feeling
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SW-User
@pdockal kind of. I am married and very much submissive to my husband although he has been my only 'dominant' so I guess I'm probably not that experienced. But, I know my husband would be considered by many to be naturally dominant and that is the kind of expectation he would have I think if he was in a similar situation. He would not allow her to mess him around which I think is what this woman is doing.
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pdockal · 56-60, M
@SW-User

Gotchya
Glad you found your place
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@SW-User I do believe you are correct
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HootyTheNightOwl
Nah... I'm out of Dodge.

My Domme senses have me wondering if she would ever be mine or will she just submit to anyone who calls themselves "Dom/me".

I will do Dom share when I see that I can help a sub better serve her main Dom in that way - but if I'm led to believe that I am their only Domme, then I expect that to be the case or I'm out.
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl @HootyTheNightOwl I agree it hink thats his thought he might consider her if he was the main Dom and had access to the conversation between the other dom and her ,im not sure .
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helenS · 36-40, F
There are more dominant men than submissive women. That's why you guys have to play the game in accordance with her rules.
In a sense it's the submissive woman who dominates the scenery.
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@helenS that is true the sub is the one that has the real power .
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helenS · 36-40, F
@olderuncle944 It's not easy to pretend to be the "object" while in reality she's the one in power.
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Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
I think she had a bad experience
There needs to be trust and confidence between them
Going too quickly
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Ironhand · 51-55, M
Absolutely she has. That's why there are stages to entering a dynamic.
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Belladonna · 41-45, F
Sounds to me like she's made a choice already, yes.
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Strict4u · 56-60, M
Sounds like she already made her choice
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
That was my thought ,and i told him that ,he hopes its just a one time thing that happened.
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HootyTheNightOwl
@olderuncle944 He should also be attentive to future references to other doms after this, too... especially if that is a limit for him.
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl @HootyTheNightOwl i personaly would not be a second place dom that happened to me before .not again
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HootyTheNightOwl
@olderuncle944 I don't always mind it at times - but it has to be disclosed and open upfront or I'm out.

I also refuse to introduce my subs to my Doms... never again will a dom try to claim a sub of mine - then try to tear me a new one because he didn't notice that she was talking to him on a chat that I could access and see for myself.
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pdockal · 56-60, M
Kinda hard to control anybody over the internet regardless of the situation especially when trust isn't established

They just close the account and or block you when they're thru with you
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
It sounds like the 2 doms are confusing her as to who to obey but i think she explained in her comments
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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
She has madr her choice and was released by her old dom
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