Dominance And Submission

I have a question from a fellow Dom he is considering making a lady his sub ,she has said that she is considering several Doms and has not submitted to any of them or a choice yet.
They talked along time yesterday and she became disrespectful to him he told her she would be punished for that she agreed to a punishment, he offered a sexual punishment and play telling her she will not stop till she has an orgasm , she said she couldn't do that because another Dom had punished her by making her insert a plug for to hrs and forbid her to play or have an orgasm . now he is wondering by submitting to the other Dom and having sex play with him does that mean she made a choice and chose the other Dom already as her new Dom .

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olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

That was my thought ,and i told him that ,he hopes its just a one time thing that happened.

HootyTheNightOwl

@olderuncle944 Maybe it was a one time session - but he needs open and honest communication to clear this up.

They need to be on the same page with what they offer the other and what they expect in return... without that, you might as well have nothing.

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

@HootyTheNightOwl @HootyTheNightOwl very well put my thought she should be open to him and if she wants the other dom say so , or if she wants both be open and dont lie to ether one .

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

@HootyTheNightOwl he is talking to her about it

HootyTheNightOwl

@olderuncle944 He should also be attentive to future references to other doms after this, too... especially if that is a limit for him.

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

@HootyTheNightOwl @HootyTheNightOwl i personaly would not be a second place dom that happened to me before .not again

HootyTheNightOwl

@olderuncle944 I don't always mind it at times - but it has to be disclosed and open upfront or I'm out.

I also refuse to introduce my subs to my Doms... never again will a dom try to claim a sub of mine - then try to tear me a new one because he didn't notice that she was talking to him on a chat that I could access and see for myself.