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Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
We instinctively sexualize them.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Subsumedpat I still dispute that because if you aren't breastfed you have no correlation between adult female human boobs and sexualisation, or some people just are not configured/wired to have automatic sexual arousal/attraction or, in my case, seem to be wired to actively block any sensations of attraction due to a lifetime of being made to feel unworthy of having good mutually rewarding adult romantic love connections. The only linkage is seeing other people's attraction to boobs but that's not always a learning a person automagically detects and 'wires in' to their psyche.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@zonavar68 Who is not breast fed,
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Subsumedpat Lots more than you think. I am of the view that unless it's due to my introverted neuro-divergent spicy personality then I wasn't breast fed as I have zero intrinsic sexual attraction because my brain is configured to block/suppress/ignore/delete any sensations or feelings of attraction. Doesn't help that my two actual relationships resulted in disastrous breakups leading me to feel I'm totally inadequate in that space and should just avoid trying to ever go there again.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@zonavar68 A lot of things effect us from times we can't even remember I guess.