I’ve never experienced sexual attraction to anyone or anything. I’ve never been interested in or wanting for sex. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m asexual, although I haven’t officially announced it to anyone except a few friends, and they all say it’s because I haven’t met the right person yet.
But I have experienced romantic feelings for a few people in my life, male and female. I do want a romantic relationship with someone, but without the sex and similar intimacy.
There’s one person I’ve had these feelings for for a little over a year. We’ve been best friends for 13 years. What I feel for her is stronger than anyone else I’ve ever had these feelings for. But I know she wants and enjoys sex (I’ve even considered having an open-like relationship. They can sleep with whoever they want, but they have to be safe, it can’t come in our home, and they have to come home to me). But she has a boyfriend right now that she desperately loves. So I watch from afar yet so close because we are still best friends. I even changed her name in my phone because seeing the names we have each other hurts me. I don’t know what to do. I wish her all the happiness and I would never try to sabotage her relationship, but I do find myself wanting it to end. Which makes me feel awful.
Wow, what a situation to be in. I would suggest that you explain everything to your friend and if she is a really close friend, she should understand your situation.❤️
@RadiantRuby First off, that is incredibly offensive and rude. That comment is totally uncalled for. Secondly, who are you to judge someone’s appearance? She’s a freaking beauty inside and out. Thirdly, what am I confused about? I’m very clear and confident in how I feel.
@RadiantRuby I don’t care how you feel about either of our appearances. That clearly wasn’t the intent of my post. And then you followed up with maybe that’s why I’m confused. You can have your opinion but after hearing some of it, it’s irrelevant to me.
I'm no psychiatrist and this thought has no bases from anything but have you tried masterbating maybe you need to find sexuality in yourself before you can feel comfortable enough to experience those things with a partner.
