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Have you ever told someone that you're not attracted to them? If so, how did you let them down easy?

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deadmoon · 31-35, F
It depends on the reason why I am not attracted to them. If it’s a personality, value, or ideological mismatch, I’ll just be up front about why I’m not interested.

If I’m not attracted to them because I find them ugly, then I’m gay.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@deadmoon So You tell people you're gay rather than be upfront? To me that would be just as awkward if not more .
deadmoon · 31-35, F
@AngelUnforgiven The last girl I heard who was brutally honest about not wanting to go out a man that she didn’t find attractive got sued for emotional distress, so…

I truly do not care if certain men I have zero interest in think I am gay. Whatever gets somebody to back off is all good with me.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@deadmoon i feel that 100%
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@deadmoon Nothing wrong with feeling 'gay' I often get accused of being the male version of that because I rarely if ever have a female partner in my life whereas almost everyone else I associate with at work or socially does have a sexual partner. I'm not gay.