Why is kindness so incredibly attractive to me? Completely random statement I know and maybe...

Sapio · 51-55, M

It is indeed sad that it's a rarity. Sex has its place but there's so much more to explore with someone. And I think that exploration should come first. If the other doesn't occur, no big deal, at least you were given the opportunity to connect with someone platonically.

DHggmu · 31-35, M

I think you answered your own question, because it’s not the norm anymore, the world is full of negativity, judgment, hatred.
So when we meet some who is genuinely kind, it’s easy to find that attractive, at least for me.

Umile · 41-45, F

Same here.

A kind man is a good man. A good man is attractive.

Meaning, me like.

If only they sold detectors for that kind of thing.

Ferric67 · M

Kindness is an intrinsic quality that speaks volumes on character

Magenta · F

Hmmm that's not really what kindness is though, to moi.That's just being sincerely interested in us as a person and actually behaving as a gentleman, rare that it is.

Nick1 · 61-69, M

People take advantage of kindness. So over time you become more cautious.

TexChik · F

Because it is in short supply.

Jonjdw · 51-55, M

You are right. Get to k ow the person was always important to me

Samek · 36-40, M

Does seem to be rare. :(

Sojournersoul · M

Need more kindness in the world

NickyLee · 41-45

Being kind unfortunately ruined me. Ive been taken advantage of so badly, so many times that it makes me wonder what the hell is wrong with me. Every time is like the first time somehow, and then im left wondering how i let it happen again

in10RjFox · M

Why do you think it's just attractive to you. We all love kindness at varied levels.

daddywashere

Nice to hear. The world often doesn't seem to value kindness.

Pressure

I was agreeing until I read the word men.

Men are so not my type