Why is kindness so incredibly attractive to me? Completely random statement I know and maybe...

Sapio · 51-55, M

It is indeed sad that it's a rarity. Sex has its place but there's so much more to explore with someone. And I think that exploration should come first. If the other doesn't occur, no big deal, at least you were given the opportunity to connect with someone platonically.

DHggmu · 31-35, M

I think you answered your own question, because it’s not the norm anymore, the world is full of negativity, judgment, hatred.
So when we meet some who is genuinely kind, it’s easy to find that attractive, at least for me.

Umile · 41-45, F

Same here.

A kind man is a good man. A good man is attractive.

Meaning, me like.

If only they sold detectors for that kind of thing.

Ferric67 · M

Kindness is an intrinsic quality that speaks volumes on character

NickyLee · 41-45

Being kind unfortunately ruined me. Ive been taken advantage of so badly, so many times that it makes me wonder what the hell is wrong with me. Every time is like the first time somehow, and then im left wondering how i let it happen again

Magenta · F

Hmmm that's not really what kindness is though, to moi.That's just being sincerely interested in us as a person and actually behaving as a gentleman, rare that it is.