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I think a true connection is rare


"It all combines with me".
They become a part of you and they have the ability to affect deeply,
easily wound and to also make you soar!
But it can be so achingly beautiful or painful.

😌💖
HikingMan · 51-55, M Best Comment
I think that anyone that makes your spirit soar also has the innate ability to wound deeply.
In real life the abuses are clearer while in the virtual world things that cause discomfort, someone might not even know if they have done wrong for quite some time.

You are such a lovely personality here and I'd hate to think that anyone has ever mistreated you in any way. I hope your spirit soars again very soon and it's never followed by disappointment,

Be well
Live happy
Die trying,

Rob
HikingMan · 51-55, M
@HikingMan BTW ~ That pic is an excellent piece of art in and of itself.
The texture in the paper...
The noticeable creasing caused by the typewriter....
The shadow play of light from left to right....

It's a great photo !
Magenta · F
@HikingMan Indeed, in this realm, it can certainly be a crap shoot of twisted perception and misunderstanding.

Thank you for your kind and beautiful words. I appreciate you. 😊

Yes that his style, it's quite unique.

TexChik · F
I think it's rare that people will wait for that and only accept that after a protracted search before committing themselves to another and a relationship. Everyone is in a big damn hurry to jump into an intimate relationship and start adulting only to be disappointed after a few years or even after a couple of kids. Deciding on who we marry is the most important decision of our lives. It should be taken far more seriously. That's what old fashioned "courting" was all about.

The prospects of marriage and belonging to someone were horrifying to me when he walked into my life. I could feel I had a lot of love to give, but I wasn't interested in doing that anytime soon. Then I met the right man and suddenly my thoughts turned from "is he the right one" to "will he still love me when I'm 50" . 😉
Magenta · F
@TexChik Aw beautiful share. 😊
I so agree with that first paragraph.
That's what old fashioned "courting" was all about.
It is nearly non existent now. It seems to be a "hook-up" culture now, fast thrills and move on to the next.
CCMorgan · 51-55, M
Ah, JmStorm. How does he craft the words together as he does, always seeming to "hit that mark" in our hearts? A true connection is rare indeed, I agree 💜

We collide freely
The person I've always known
You'll never soar alone!
💛
Magenta · F
@CCMorgan Mmhm, he has a special gift, gets right to the heart of it.
Aw I adore that verse you wrote. 😘
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
Wow. I don’t think I’ve read this one before. He gets right to the heart of us! So true, painfully so sometimes.
Magenta · F
@ChampagneOnIce Doesn't he though, he has a gift. Achingly so.
Very true.... This is beautiful dear Magenta.... 🤗🤗🌹

To me it feels like as we existed together from the day 1 of the World .... We have died together and we were reborn together so many times....

It feels as if we have been, are, and will be each others forever destiny
Magenta · F
@Soossie Mmhm, it resonated so much with me,
Aw your words are beautiful and deep. I love them. Thank you. 🤗💕
@Magenta

🤗🤗🌹
If the connection ends through means other than death, does that mean it was not true?
Elisbch · M
@Magenta .. if you don't mind me adding to this, .....

I agree with the physical part can fade but if bonded emotionally (spirit), I think there's a good chance that can stay. However most times it's not strong enough in both people to hold both people together. I have a few people I had meaningful relationships with in my life that I still have a spiritual bond with but I'm sure they do not have.
Magenta · F
@Elisbch I don't mind in the least.
Yes, I mostly agree. I guess remnants of them remain with us the rest of our life. 😌💟
Elisbch · M
@Magenta .. yes, for sure, i think so.
Connections in every way imaginable just limited by the imagination.
@Magenta :-)~
Magenta · F
@Experienced33 Ha! Our old homemade emoji. ;-)~~
@Magenta Imagination.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Magenta So what do you think of Jesse Lee Soffer & Would You Do Him
Magenta · F
@JohnOinger Oooh Chicago P.D. Mmm perhaps, He has a sexiness and that boyish charm, although a bit young. 😁
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Magenta nice
SW-User
Wonder if he will truly appreciate your cookies though😌 @Magenta
Elisbch · M
Wouldn't this be nice to feel once more. ☺️
Elisbch · M
@Magenta .. you're absolutely correct. It is rare and it does take an awful lot to recover. A heavy toll most times. I was thinking more real relationships instead of relationships through social medias. I've been down that road before and it's less promising than real relationships imho. 😔
Magenta · F
@Elisbch Indeed a heavy toll. 🤗
Guess I was thinking more of connection through social media, which is a major crap shoot, lol!
I've come to learn some come to fill a void or loneliness or sexual, and that in itself speaks temporary. It isn't based on a solid foundation.
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A connection like that has one thing in common with reaching old age………….
A privilege denied to many.
SW-User
At the same time ...be careful...the deeper the connection the deeper the wound
Magenta · F
@SW-User Indeed..
Sigh. 🥲 Every word brings back a reminder of a dull ache. Thank you for sharing this.
Magenta · F
@CookieCrumbs Aw, I'm so sorry. I know that ache. 😔 🤗
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
"Achingly beautiful or painful." There is no in between I'm afraid.
Magenta · F
@RuyLopez Non there sure isn't. But who would want luke warm anyway, right?
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
@Magenta Better to feel something intense and soul altering then have regrets rather than feeling nothing at all.
fun4us2b · M
So hard to know who will be willing, then it has to be mutual. Yes, rare.
Magenta · F
@fun4us2b I find it to be more of a natural happening. It most certainly can't be forced. But it can't be denied either. 😌
Coppercoil · M
Words promise so much, but often deliver so little.
Magenta · F
@Coppercoil Spot on!
Ask Andre of the Andrea True Connection
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