Ladies of SW: how many of you are heavier/chubby and in a relationship with a fit/average sized partner?

I am a big girl and my bf is extremely fit. It makes me insecure when we go out in public together. 😔 Do any of you deal with this?

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Phoenix · 41-45, M

Memph31 · 36-40, M
If you’re insecure, why not lose weight?

First she asked ladies of SW, so unless I misread, you have the wrong number of chromosomes.
Second, why are people insecure (not just women of any age) ?
Because of what you just said.
You offered an end result, not a method or acceptance.
That's where body shaming begins.

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Phoenix that guy is a dick. He blocked me though 🤣. Tell him I said hi 🤣