Ladies of SW: how many of you are heavier/chubby and in a relationship with a fit/average sized partner?

Well....I'm not a lady but I can tell you this......

There is a water machine outside the front door of my (very busy) local Fry's that I frequent regularly.

My observation from watching people go in and out of the store as I fill my water jugs is that there are many more couples that meet your description than those that do not.

My advice would be for you to rock what you got and hold hands wherever you go.... after all = he picked you

Memph31 · 36-40, M
If you’re insecure, why not lose weight?

First she asked ladies of SW, so unless I misread, you have the wrong number of chromosomes.
Second, why are people insecure (not just women of any age) ?
Because of what you just said.
You offered an end result, not a method or acceptance.
That's where body shaming begins.

You need to think of one thing...

You say your bf is extremely fit.. So you think why is he with me...

Simple... He loves you for who and what you are... Be proud of him for that and even prouder of yourself for being everything he wants... Gorgeous natural sexy beauty that he WANTS

I am not attracted to men that are smaller than me. My bf is about 100 pounds heavier than me. 😬

If your bf is OK by having g self doubt's don't create doubt's in his head ..you will repent later

If you’re insecure, why not lose weight?

First of all, you are not a big girl. He loves you for how you are.