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Why when women get in their 30s the only kind of men that want to date us are ancient men, lunatics and male wh0res?

th3r0n · 41-45, M
To be honest, guys who intend to keep a woman tend to look for a woman who will be viable for the remainder of their life span

Menopause can happen at 45-55, so at 30 a woman usually has 15-25 years left

Man whores don’t care if you’re still healthy now, they just want enjoyment and short term pleasures, a man who will want to keep you for life will be as concerned about your viability through his life span as he is about right now

Just because men who want a wife aren’t entirely selfish doesn’t mean we are perfectly selfless, we are still human

I’m 39 and my best friend I’m trying to marry is turning 22 in June

A man that will want to marry a woman in her 30s is usually near 50 or older, though surely not all see it that way
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst I’m sorry you feel that way, a person has contributions to society and their friends and family and loved ones and affects more things around them than they realize

You just have to understand that this post was specifically about romantic interest from men seeking long term relationships and my answer was intended to be very specific to that
@th3r0n I believe you do not speak for all men, and, for that, I am thankful.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst I never once said all, I explained the trend

Truthfully if I had gotten as close to Brii and came to love her as I do, I would have wanted to marry her all the same if she was your age, but that’s not what most men are initially looking for
Gawd, but you love to generalize, don’t you ? Why not just say those are the only folks [b]you’ve[/b] been finding ? 🙄
@Fluffybull Have you see what men post on here? I would only remind, don't judge the world based on here.
@thewindupbirdchronicles [b]She’s[/b] not. The OP was. Fluffy and I were reminding her that all men [b]aren’t [/b] like some are here.
@bijouxbroussard I wasn't being that serious, but taken.
SW-User
I haven't noticed. Here in Morocco you will be surprised how the younger guys 18-26 fetishize us it's insane 😷
That's just because they're horny. I wouldn't take it as a compliment. @SW-User
SW-User
@Spoiledbrat
Yes that's true and no it's not a compliment hence the word "fetishize".
It is actually annoying if you aren't interested in that age group. Yet it's true and very tangible.

Lots have this stereotype in mind that women in their 30s are "experienced", "compassionate" and "curvy". There must be an urban legend circulating somewhere here among those guys because it just gets too much. Could be a cultural thing as well since we have famous sayings about it like "zin ftlatin"(=beauty is in the 30s) which they often use as pick up lines.

Also many of them are repressed sexually and don't lose their virginity or at least have a stable partner before their mid/late 20s when they get married so they assume that women older than them can teach them a few things.

On the contrary most older men in their 50s/60s here seem to be level-headed and mind their own business in general.
rosiewww999 · 51-55, T
@SW-User quite right, young lady
Methinks you’re looking in the wrong places. And the better news…when you get in your 40’s you don’t give a shit and start doing the looking yourself. Actually, that can happen now.
SW-User
It depends on the male. Im over thirty and my boyfriend is nice and younger and very attractive.
LadyJ · F
Yeah I'm so over those old lunatics now...I'm ready for some real fun 😋😎😂
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Fluffybull · F
Perhaps you could work on your attitude, that might help ....?
Northwest · M
Are you working at a retirement facility in Florida?
pentacorn · F
that hasn't been my experience...
Fluffybull · F
@pentacorn Mine, either. ☺️👍
Rickg · 31-35, M
Your looking in the wrong places lol
as the vagina ages it stretches and starts to smell, old people usually loose their sense of smell so they have no idea. as for the lunatics and whores, they will fuck anything
Not really, but there are an abundance of them even in our 20s. But They all start showing up at the same time because other people in their lives are tired of their shit and its overwhelming.
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Celt43 · 46-50, M
On the plus side when you get into your mid 40s all the guys in their 20s will be after ye again 🤷‍♂️
Ah shit.. I have a thing for women older than me.. I wonder if I'm the lunatic or the male whore 🤔🤣
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
I've always liked women who are older than me... And yes, I'm a lunatic and a wh**e.
Tracos · 51-55, M
please qualify 'ancient' 😳
Troubledchick99 · 31-35, F
@Tracos 59 and over😅
Tracos · 51-55, M
@Troubledchick99 in that case I object to your statement!!
I would love to date a 31-35 F :)
That's why you get married while you're young.
SW-User
That's MR ancient lunatic and male whore to YOU!!
Lostpoet · M
🤷🏼‍♂️I am none of those things
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WandererTony · 56-60, M
Whats wrong with ancient men? 😕
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
We have the money
chrisCA · M
Maybe it's you?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Wow thats not true. Now it is true that the dating pool kinda sucks but you can find a good one here and there.
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
I'm only one of those things.
My lunacy isn't that huge, although it gets high when Anthrax is on.
that applies to any age both ways
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
I'm all of those
SW-User
I lnow this post is about me. Its not my fault I'm an ancient lunatic male whore 😡😭
Elessar · 26-30, M
@SW-User Bruh, we're the same age..


.. they should put us in a museum
SW-User
@Elessar I remember back in my day people weren't allowed to call us lunatics or whores. These damned young people show no respect
@SW-User @Elessar damn you dinosaurs are making me sad that I'm only half a year away from your age bracket too 😬
strongbow · 46-50, M
The guys in their 30's want the girls in their 20's

 
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