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Why when women get in their 30s the only kind of men that want to date us are ancient men, lunatics and male wh0res?

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th3r0n · 41-45, M
To be honest, guys who intend to keep a woman tend to look for a woman who will be viable for the remainder of their life span

Menopause can happen at 45-55, so at 30 a woman usually has 15-25 years left

Man whores don’t care if you’re still healthy now, they just want enjoyment and short term pleasures, a man who will want to keep you for life will be as concerned about your viability through his life span as he is about right now

Just because men who want a wife aren’t entirely selfish doesn’t mean we are perfectly selfless, we are still human

I’m 39 and my best friend I’m trying to marry is turning 22 in June

A man that will want to marry a woman in her 30s is usually near 50 or older, though surely not all see it that way
@th3r0n
[quote] To be honest, guys who intend to keep a woman tend to look for a woman who will be viable for the remainder of their life span[/quote]

[b][i]Keep a woman???[/i][/b]

Viable? [b][i]VIABLE???? [/i][/b]

You have to be kidding me???? If your best friend your trying to marry is smart, she will erase you from her life and move on to a better opportunity for happiness from someone who will love and appreciate her through ALL stages of life.

What a schmuck!
Fluffybull · F
@Pinkstarburst Yep, that's another bozo I'm blocking! 😆😆👏
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst Viable for reproduction, clearly, and you can take your feminist offended Bullshit somewhere else

Those are the things that a man looks for to start a relationship, once he loves a woman he loves her

I told a truth you don’t like and you don’t like honesty

It will be a short conversation if your tone is the same as the last message, I don’t waste my time on feminist bullshit, there’s a block button
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst not that you would care or believe anything I say, because feminists tend to ignore anything that doesn’t lead to being more offended, but the way I’ve come to love her she could get super fat and not be attractive anymore and I would still be so happy to marry her I would cry

What a man is looking for when searching for a mate and how he feels once he truly loves a woman are VERY different things
@th3r0n I’m no feminist. I am a woman who, according to your definition, was never viable, therefore, unworthy of love from a man. You see, I was infertile. So, according to your standard, even in my youth I was undesirable and insignificant.

Thankfully, there are men who think differently than you and find a woman’s value in more than her reproductive organs.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst your value as a person and your value as a marriage partner aren’t the same thing, and fertility is desired by some and infertility would be desired by others, but once you’ve gone through menopause and had hormone changes etc it’s not usually the most desirable to most men

Some men would have preferred to date you then, but men who are seeking marriage usually wouldn’t now unless they’re pushing 70

Don’t be mad at the person telling the facts, being candid isn’t being hateful, I told her the real reason for the issue she was concerned with
@th3r0n [quote] your value as a person and your value as a marriage partner aren’t the same thing,[/quote]

I’m sorry, but your comments have made them the same thing. And I respectfully disagree with you.

I’m not mad…I’m actually very sad for you.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst I’m sorry you feel that way, a person has contributions to society and their friends and family and loved ones and affects more things around them than they realize

You just have to understand that this post was specifically about romantic interest from men seeking long term relationships and my answer was intended to be very specific to that
@th3r0n I believe you do not speak for all men, and, for that, I am thankful.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Pinkstarburst I never once said all, I explained the trend

Truthfully if I had gotten as close to Brii and came to love her as I do, I would have wanted to marry her all the same if she was your age, but that’s not what most men are initially looking for