@SW-User Thank you for sharing your opinion!

So what “look” makes a fat person “fat”? Big boobs and bum, thick thighs and broad shoulders? Or is it all in the tummy? Ha ha

@SnowGirl Sure, any time.

@SnowGirl Looking at it, yes, I would. She has numerous folds going on, you can see A LOT of extra meat on her.

@SW-User Fair. A lot of girls get more folds when they’re losing weight and less when they gain though 🤔
I know there’s no perfect answer.
For what’s it’s worth though, no matter what society wants to call her I think she’s drop dead gorgeous

@SnowGirl Possibly. I'd need to see the whole package to really render judgement, but even then that judgement wouldn't be me. I'd rather judge based on personality than looks.

@Adstar But how much fat is “fat”?? We all carry at least a little bit of fat. Especially the ladies with curves in their chests and bums!! Lol

@SnowGirl It's an individual preference.. Some guys like skinny girls some like them with with more flesh.. Might be hard for a girl to know if she is too fat if she lacks awareness as to the majority of guys like.. Girls just need to be observant as to what the most popular girls look like and what girls who never get approached look like..

There is a things that can muddy the waters with this.. If a girl is just a toxic nasty female then she will be approached less even if she has an attractive body.. While some very approachable woman may get some attention even if they are on the fat side..

There is also the problem of some people having mental conditions that cause them to either think they are too fat when they are normal and this causes them to starve themselves and on the other end of the spectrum people who think they are normal when in fact they are obese..

So lots of variables that can work to make this assessment difficult to get right..

@SW-User Fair, I can definitely appreciate science lol
So you can be overweight and not “fat”? Like just chubby? If you’re fat as in obese, that’s pretty bad then, right?

There has to be a transitional range between normal & obese/fat. Chubby is a casual word for overweight. So yeah.

Health-wise, it is.


@SnowGirl

@SW-User Makes sense. Thank you so much for sharing your opinion!

@BizSuitStacy Noo A question that only Brave Men will answer.. 💪

Exactly, you tell me @TaraNice !

@SnowGirl do we need to use words to describe size? If we're talking about clothes we can say 'I'm size X, you're size Y, she is size Z', but a word like "fat" has no purpose other than to make someone feel bad about themselves

@uncalled4 I really like this

@SnowGirl thanks.

@Muldoon 🤷🏻‍♀️