In your opinion, at what weight does a girl become “fat”?

SnowGirl · 2021-12-22T17:43:51-05:00

Attraction Preferences - In your opinion, at what weight does a girl become “fat”? Take a woman of average height (say... (35 replies).

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Any “extra” weight- 130 lbs or even less (BMI 22 or under, slightly higher side of “healthy” weight)

140 lbs

150 lbs (BMI 25, technically “overweight”)

160 lbs

175 lbs (BMI 30, technically “obese”)

185 lbs

200 lbs

220 lbs

240 lbs

260 lbs

You aren’t really “fat” if you weigh less than 280 lbs

Not unless you weigh well over 300 lbs or more

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Take a woman of average height (say 5 foot 4 inches), and tell me at what weight would you consider her a bigger girl?

I’ll put a poll but please feel free to explain or be more specific in the comments!!!

I’d also like to add: I believe that every body shape and size is unique and worthy of love wholeheartedly, and as long as you incorporate a healthy diet and a little exercise into your life then the shape or weight of your body is of no concern to anyone!!! I’m just curious what the consensus would be here 😉

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Adstar · 56-60, M

Weight has nothing to do with it..

Fat is fat and a person is fat when they are carrying a lot of fat on their body.. All one needs do is look at a girl and instantly know if they are too fat or not..

SnowGirl · 26-30, F

@Adstar But how much fat is “fat”?? We all carry at least a little bit of fat. Especially the ladies with curves in their chests and bums!! Lol

Adstar · 56-60, M

@SnowGirl It's an individual preference.. Some guys like skinny girls some like them with with more flesh.. Might be hard for a girl to know if she is too fat if she lacks awareness as to the majority of guys like.. Girls just need to be observant as to what the most popular girls look like and what girls who never get approached look like..

There is a things that can muddy the waters with this.. If a girl is just a toxic nasty female then she will be approached less even if she has an attractive body.. While some very approachable woman may get some attention even if they are on the fat side..

There is also the problem of some people having mental conditions that cause them to either think they are too fat when they are normal and this causes them to starve themselves and on the other end of the spectrum people who think they are normal when in fact they are obese..

So lots of variables that can work to make this assessment difficult to get right..