An experience in many ways

A while back I shared my wife, my fantasy, and it took sometime to get there. She is a mature woman and very attractive. it opened a can of worms when it came to emotions and learning about each other. When fantasy becomes reality the picture changes to one that you do not recognise.

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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

Any time the marriage is opened, there is a chance of feelings being developed outside of the marriage, or jealousy from one of the two of you. It's unavoidable. That's why sharing is always risky.

helenS · 36-40, F

@DearAmbellina2113 I hope I'm not exaggerating things, but being in a relationship without taking any risks is rather boring.

saunder · 56-60, MNew

@DearAmbellina2113 I think it is probably unavoidable the first time but a second time you can adjust and because you know what to expect you can work with that in mind.

saunder · 56-60, MNew

@helenS I did not want to reach my later years and regretting not being more adventurous. I have been lucky and this is my second marraige, and between marraiges I had an amazing time including being the other guy in several relationships.

helenS · 36-40, F

@saunder Oh as far as I can see you won't regret not being adventurous enough on your death bed... 😏