My mom got mad the day my bra size was bigger than hers
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My mum was proud of me but I went mad when I had to wear a bra. I wasn’t very happy about getting boobs as I was only about 10. I was bullied too for having hairs down below and going swimming at school was an nightmare for me and I remember crying as all my friends bullied me and told all the boys what they seen I was very embarrassed when I had to tell the teaching assistant why I was crying.
@SW-User The cruelest times of our lives are as children pre teen through our teen years because we have not grown our compassion and understanding of other's and the world yet. So sorry that happened to you.
Alas, that’s [b]not[/b] how life works. But if you’re a [b]wise[/b] mother you won’t project that onto her and make her feel ashamed that she’s developing. It takes a lifetime to get over.
I wished that too with my son and daughter! Now I enjoy my daughter's adult mind too. I lost my son at age 21 in the military and I want that seven year old back so terribly so. I understand!