I’m a lesbian and I’ve started friendships with men and let them know I’m not attracted to men but then they still try and get intimate anyway. Do women do this to you? Or is this solely a male behavior? It’s really a hit or miss if I can accept a male as a friend because there’s no way I can tell if he’s genuinely looking for friendship or he thinks he can change me.
Im a straight guy, and women do this to me. When i was in college they'd be pretty aggressive about it. I would tell them I'm in a relationship and they'd accuse me of being gay for not wanting them. It's insane. Im not gay, i just wanted to be loyal to my then partner.
@LordShadowfire Thats a good idea. I forgot to mention, guys hit on my as well. Some were very aggressive. To the point where they thought i was lying about being straight. Some people are crazy.
I remember this one guy actually created multiple profiles when i kept blocking him on Facebook. I was open to being his friend, but i told this guy many times that i just wasnt interested. Some people just get to obsessive. I do agree with your comment though, guys are the worst when it comes to this.
No, I definitely have more female friends than I otherwise would, but they’re not trying to get with me. It’s pretty clear we’re just friends and I’m not interested. Unfortunately men who think they can “convert” lesbians are definitely a thing.
