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What are some reasons why a guy would act this way?

So i have this 19 year old co worker that i actually get along pretty well with. Our encounters usually consist of being playfully mean and pulling pranks on each other so its always laughs or play fighting with us. (Yes, I can be immature for my age. It is what it is.)

But then i notice when i try to have a normal conversation with him or when im trying to actually say something nice, he gets all weird and shy i guess. He cant maintain eye contact, he cant stand still, and one time he even just walked off before he even finished his sentence. It was just...bizarre to me. I feel like ive said something wrong.

Any ideas what this can mean? Is it just an insecure young person thing?
GeniUs · 56-60, M
He thinks you have something 'going on', he can handle it when it's all playful but he's too shy to ask or participate in a take it the next level convo. Yeah I know you weren't going to ask him out but moving away from comedy is moving closer to something serious.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@KazTheRunaway sounds like he has a crush, if you don't want to encourage it leave the relationship as it is (playful) but if you'd like to take it further be the one who leads the conversations and contrary to what others may think he's of an age where he is mature enough to make his decisions about who he gets involved with.
KazTheRunaway · 31-35, F
@GeniUs Thanks, that helps!
Jamie101 · 22-25
@GeniUs Good answer!
pdockal · 56-60, M
He's shy & insecure and doesn't know how to deal with the fact that he's probably lustung for you
KazTheRunaway · 31-35, F
@pdockal i guess that does make sense. Hes practically fresh outta HS and im old! 😆
pdockal · 56-60, M
@KazTheRunaway

When i was 17 she was 34 so ........
Sounds like he’s just shy. Can relate on a more childlike level but not quite there yet on an adult level.
KazTheRunaway · 31-35, F
@OlderSometimesWiser That does make sense.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
Maybe he has a crush on you...but surely immature.
He's technically still a baby😅
KazTheRunaway · 31-35, F
@Girlbehindthecurtain Seriously...🤦🏾‍♀️ i need to get out more so i can meet guys closer to my age lol
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Perhaps he's shy. People that can't maintain eye contact are usual shy.
Fairydust · F
Some people can’t take compliments, makes them feel awkward.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes, he’s shy, I’m like this around people too.
bugeye · 26-30, F
Pretty sure its just a guy thing. Its unfortunate but guys dont get compliments much, tell a guy his stubble looks nice and hell ride that compliment for days.

In the above case maybe he just doesnt know how to react or alternatively its because you are coworkers he feels the need to be extra cautious lest he put his job at risk.
EPreject · 36-40, F
Hes 19 and lacks social skills due mostly being exposed to the internet and not real ppl. How about you pick one a little older. Thats damn near grooming. Ok.
KazTheRunaway · 31-35, F
@EPreject i didn't say i was romantically pursuing him, only that we get along well but- ok.
tfan123 · 46-50, M
Likes to have fun with you but shy….yeah he definitely likes you 😉👍🙂
KazTheRunaway · 31-35, F
@tfan123 Is this just something all guys go through at that age?
tfan123 · 46-50, M
@KazTheRunaway Possibly but I think he’s got a crush on you 😉👍🙂
Orca4950 · 70-79, M
meet him for coffee sometime
Animalvan · 56-60, M
Sounds like he has a thing for you
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
He likes you or is tweaking out on something 😂

 
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