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Feeling kinda guilty for telling that guy I'm not interested anymore so suddenly

But that was a red flag, right? Right.

Ugh. Sucky. He seemed cool and lovely in so many ways, but I can't risk it. My neck already has marks on it (from him choking me) and I kept telling him he couldn't do that, due to my job.

He also kept pushing me into PDA and liked that it made me uncomfortable. (I do not like PDA at ALL).

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No no no no do not feel bad ...trust your gut ...
caccoon · 36-40
@cherny I stopped feeling guilty when he asked me for the other guy's number first thing this morning ahahah
Px4545 · 31-35, M
"My neck already has marks on it (from him choking me) "

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Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
Yuck I'm sorry. Girl you just need to stay away from men. Try women.
caccoon · 36-40
@Notsimilarreally it's on the agenda
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@caccoon I didn't mean that to sound mean by the way, sorry if it did. It was a little short and I had to edit it. It's my mood today. Ugh. However I am so tired of these shit guys that magnetize to you.
caccoon · 36-40
@Notsimilarreally never be sorry. You are always so good.

Keep pushing forward in the ways you know are the right things. 💙😤
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Damn you should not feel guilty at all, someone that does not respect consent is not someone you want to be with.
caccoon · 36-40
@Lackwittyname yeah, it's just too dangerous
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@caccoon Especially early on, it will just get worse.
SilverF0x · 51-55, M
Yep. That’s a red flag. You did the right thing.
SpectralMourning · 46-50, M
If it made you uncomfortable and he wasn't respecting the boundary when you asked him to then yes....a red flag.
If that's a red flag? More like:

Straylight · F
It shows lack of respect.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
A gigantic red flag for sure. Someone who can't respect personal boundaries is not someone you want around. :)

 
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