I think I need to end things with this guy

He is so sweet but I am feeling suffocated and it's affecting my work.

He's telling his friends and parents about me and we've only been on like five dates. He shows up at market. He wants to come over all the time.

I have kinda indicated these things to him but it's too easy for me to want to be around him.

I feel pressured and I don't wanna screw up my new job or neglect it, or my animal or plant friends.

It really sucks but he is TOO intense.