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Something else I don't understand about men

The amount of them that want to tell you about their sxual escapades

Why would I want to know these things?

Personally, I like to keep those things secret. I've told people when they've asked, but mostly I prefer not to.

Am I weird?
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
No you aren't weird. Everyone is different. I personally would want to know, i have no issues with him telling me or even asking because i want everything out on the table if i'm dealing with someone. That way there's no surprises and i know that we are on the same page.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
You're not alone on this one. My ex bf told me multiple times about his sex life before me. I don't really care, and respect that as a private thing I don't need to know. I don't want to share. Intimacy is shared in private, let it stay private. Unless that's your kink
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I can't imagine anyone being interested in my sexual history. Like you I think there's a time, place, and person to share that kind of information.
Nate931 · 31-35, M
Many of my guy friends did this when they were in their early 20s, but it was something you talked about with your other guy friends. Not really something to tell your romantic partner.
caccoon · 36-40
@Nate931 some men do it well into their 40s and probably forever. It's pathetic
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
I think it's because they talk about their victories that everyone should want to know about.

Personally, I don't really care. Actually it's TMI
caccoon · 36-40
@caPnAhab it really is gross and boring
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
@caccoon thankfully I only see on here and not in real life
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I feel weird talking about my exes at all to a (potential) partner unprompted
Let alone about what I’ve done sexually with them
caccoon · 36-40
@JRVanguard exactly
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@caccoon Like for example I’m telling a story where I was on vacation somewhere with my ex I will always say “When I was on vacation…” I will not bring them up unless very relevant to do so and even then will feel weird about it
Elessar · 31-35, M
It's subjective. For me at least it'd be absolutely embarrassing, for others (many? most??) those are the things to put at the top of the CV
caccoon · 36-40
@Elessar yeah I think they're proud of it and want a pat on the back 🙄🙄🙄

If anything it makes them seem more inept
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
Nah, I'm the same way.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
I know someone who does whos 31. Theres no way its real. He describes it in detail.
No not weird, I don't need details or want them for that matter.
kodiac · 22-25, M
I think the ones that insist on talking about it are the ones not really doing it .
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Right, I had one guy brag about getting a bj at a party while playing beer pong.
caccoon · 36-40
@SkeetSkeet goddamn he needs to live more
MethDozer · M
@SkeetSkeet To be fair ,that's pretty lit
caccoon · 36-40
Straylight · 31-35, F
My hypothesis is that they’re trying to steer the conversation, and eventually activities, into sex territory.
caccoon · 36-40
@Straylight they are awful tacticians 🤣
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Doomflower · 41-45, M
Not weird. This is weirdly affirming. Sex is just...interesting.
No. That's why I only flirt with virgins. 😏
caccoon · 36-40

 
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