Why is lust so overpowering for men than love .

this Gemini guy that I cannot break up with,emotionally exhausts me and then physically uses me
All he can ever think of is physical intimacy ,no love no care no other distractions .

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

Women seem to want more for connection in my experience. Men seem to... Some at least don't desire for a deep connection. Therefore it becomes this sort of transactional thing where they dont ever relax and develop that connection.

Then again, maybe he is trying to devwlop a connection but beneath it all, he's just an exhaustive mess with messed up principles.

Its a poor situation to be in. I know, I've been a pretty terrible bf and it took years to stop arguing over everything and to just relax and enjoy another persons company and experiences. Thats a skill in its own I think.