Guys how do you handle this? Women what does my gf want?

Well for one - this ⬇- that's a paradox. Its contradictory.
-two - you bought it up. Accused and now think that you can leave that accusation at that.

She may have ignored you , yes.
But she never accused you or insulted your intent.
You did.

And you havent seem to accepeted her apology, coz she had to say it multiple times.


I know this isnt the best analogy, but....

...imagine your mum asks where you were when you went out.
Why didn't you call coz you were having so much fun you forgot.
Imagine by the time you saw the message it way past her bedtime - so you left replying till the next morning... out of courtesy.

Are you entitled to go out and have fun with your friends?
Are you allowed to make mistakes and apologize?
Should you be accused and affronted the next day coz you messed up ?

And would her accusing you hurt your feelings ?

Dont you feel that someone should be allowed to go out with their friends and have fun without being on an emotional leash ?

She was out, why did she have to call?
Im sure you arent her keeper - shes a grown woman.

Maybe allow her that ?
Allow her the right to be herself and do her thing, with her friends, once in a while.

Im sure youde like the same freedom, without having to check in....and justify it.

You aren't each others property 🤷‍♀

Edit: i think youre hanging on a little too tight.
Loosen up a bit maybe?

What do they say, if you love them - set them free. If they fly away, they werent meant for you - if they stay , they stay willingly.

And one offence isnt worth getting so strung up about . Itd be different if she was doing this every week.
But its just once. A first time event.

Maybe don't jump so hard on her .

Maybe itd have been better if youde just told her how it made you feel, rarher than judging her ?🤷‍♀

She was having fun, probably not looking at her phone, finally read your text at 1 but didn't want to wake you. Slept in late and text you. Doesn't sound that serious to me. You inquiring shows you care, but I don't think she owes you a ton of apology.

Not what you want to hear probably but I think you're being too possessive and reading too much into this. After only 3 months together I think she needs a bit of space.

I think its f'd up on her part. As someone with severe anxiety, I would think something horrible happened

i mean, you felt hurt, you shared how you feel, she apologized, she shared how she feels. that's a pretty good relationship.

Dude, you sound really possessive. Let her go out with her friends without you expecting her to check in.

It was rude and disrespectful.

shes cheating

You busted her she was disrespecting at the least cheating at the most....