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Don't do it my way

I stopped drinking in November last year. Just as dad told me he was dying. I had no defence just started drinking. A friend had tried to get me to admit my problem so luckily I was conscious and stopped and have been working my recovery since then.

Given emotional turmoil is a trigger for many, definitely for me, the advice early on is to not emotionally stress yourself.

I started dating a new guy almost immediately - not advised.
Dad passed away - unfortunate.
I have to deal with a lot of his estate as my brother moved back to California - not advised.
Now I'm changing job - not advised!

But my company is closing my branch and I happen to be offered another job.

But if you're looking at early recovery. Don't do it my way.
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Orchid · 51-55, F
You are doing just great im here for if you need me 🧡
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
You’re amazing, I’m proud of you! 🤗🤗
DareDevil · 46-50, M
Degbeme · 70-79, M
You have done well to my way of thinking. Keep going. 🤗
Domking · 61-69, M
First, congratulations for staying sober

The job change is beyond your control.
The estate matters are beyond your control, too. These are inconvenient realities of life.
But, please go to AA meetings. You don't have to go through this alone. That only makes it difficult. In early recovery, you need hope and strength, encouragement, consolation and company.
Wish you all success
Domking · 61-69, M
@AngelaR80 you are doing Great. There are quite a few things on your plate now. You may or may not find time or opportunity.Secret of success is Not to get disconnected, alone or isolated.

BTW, there are online meetings too, though I prefer physical meetings.
AngelaR80 · 46-50, F
@Domking I do online if I think I need one and timing is naff - I do some late evening or morning if my kids are here for example. But I agree in person is better
Domking · 61-69, M
@AngelaR80 we are walking the same path - feel free to mail me if you want to, any feelings, relief or rant. I have time for reply. Best Wishes
KatyO83 · 41-45, F
You're doing brilliant. Much of this is out of your control and you're not blindly running at stuff but considering it carefully.

I've watched you begin to bloom over those months and it's great to see you becoming the you you should have been all along

Much love 😘😘
AngelaR80 · 46-50, F
@KatyO83 thank you. I wouldn't be here but for you. 🤗🤗
peterlee · M
A new job opens up a lot of possibilities. Including developing new skills.

It’s great that you have been offered one. This shows you are capable and valued.
sunsetdeb · 36-40, F
Thank you for sharing this.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
From what you have told me you seem to be coping so far. I hope it continues that way.
ODAAT

Just ODAAT

OMAAT if necessary!
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Don't drink. Go to meetings. The rest will follow.
AngelaR80 · 46-50, F
@OldBrit thanks for all your support and encouragement. I can't tell you how vital it's been. Great to see you last night. Just what I needed.
notsure · 56-60, M
Thats great that you recognised it and despite the problems thrown at you, you have still managed to come out the other side
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Sounds like a lot for one plate. Just keep weathering the storm. Sorry for your loss.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
If you are here talking about it and recovering, I think you did just fine.
It is not about how many times you stumble, it's about having the guts to get up and keep going.
Good luck my friend.
I'm here for emotional support if you need it.
I'm praying for you, my friend.
Most people couldn't handle what you're going through all at the same time.
I think you're exceptional!!

 
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