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Addiction of Any Kind

My brother, who lives with me, is an alcoholic. It is the most horrible of all things to go through as a caring sibling. When our mother died, I inherited my brother. I was the only one in the family that had children so it was an easy fix...Akindheart gets the kid. I raised him as my own.

He started drinking at 14 that I know of. He has been sober for long periods of time but then binge drinks when something stresses him out.

No one will help me. The family is done with him and I have to watch this on a daily basis. yes, I can kick him out, Yes, I can let him die and Yes, I know that he has to want treatment. Even my friends avoid me rather than discuss it.

It is the worst thing you can inflict on a family member. The absolutely worst. I have tried everything to help him. right now, he is doing good but who knows what will set him off again.
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antonioioio · 70-79, M
I haven't got a clue what might help in this dreadful situation, but sure theirs lots of people i, or groups of people in the same situation as you, that you might contact♥️
akindheart · 61-69, F
@antonioioio my brother was in AA for a long time. rehab 4 times. he says he is too busy to go back. not sure what else to do but join Alanon
antonioioio · 70-79, M
@akindheart having a brother who is destroying himself must be soul destroying
I had a sister that I was very close to, passed away over 20 years and I still feel that loss like it only happened yesterday
It was cancer that took her, so what took her only lasted a year
But your pain is lasting years which must be really hard on you ♥️