It’s hard because you know it started with something small and grew. It took over their life and you want to help them heal. But you need to care for you first.
@JackJames I've always been willing to do whatever it takes to help but people will not change if they don't want to and if they're not making any effort themselves then all of mine are just useless and in vain.
@Poetvann my mother has worked with addicts since 1995. I’ve unfortunately learned the hard way that the person needs to want it first. You walking away might be reason enough to want to change however.
