I think it would be far more beneficial to spend the time instead with a counselor who can help you understand why you are self-destructive.

What can you gain? Nothing that I can see.

What can you lose? Everything you value, up to and including your life.

It’s not a hard decision.

The no phone no pictures thing has me saying no, don’t meet him. Be good to yourself and tame that wild side another way.

I don’t think he has really given you any reason to trust him. He needs to at the bare minimum allow you to have his number and see what he looks like.

No way should you meet him. This would be a big red flag for me. Firstly his is dishonest, cheating on his wife! What else does he lie about? No traceability. I think it is a big risk and not worth it.
My two cents worth.
Take care and be safe

Please do not do it! Sounds beyond sketchy. Remember Ted Bundy was a charmer and married with kids.

If you do decide to meet him...make sure you let someone know where you're going...if you can...get his name...tell your friend that you'll be home by5????and then if she doesn't call you or let you know what's up ...you may want to somehow check on her:)

The no pics things is rather odd. Almost all mobile phones have cameras now. So he can just take a selfie when he's away from his wife and send it to you by email, Instagram, etc.

But your own motives seem odd too. What is the purpose of meeting this married man? If you want a relationship then starting with someone who is already married seems like a guaranteed way of making your life difficult. If you just want sex then why tell him that you aren't doing anything the first time you meet?

No

Hes married……………………………………………………………. That’s a boundary you shouldnt cross. For yourself. You deserve someone who is willing to focus on you instead of cheating on his wife.

He isn’t showing you his face, no voice to hear? That’s all massive red flags. You alrdy know he is not a good choice.

Met yes. Have him bring his wife or better yet tell him you'll bring your husband for personal safety reasons 😆 then ask a guy friend to go and pretend to be your husband. 😆

Yes yes it's fine, come with me I want to show you the baby sheep over here in the barn. They are so cute you have to see.

Short and direct answer.

No.

Pass

And besides you and him being cheaters i don't believe the story about he isn't on this website. You can fool some of the people some of the time but you can't fool all the people all of the time.

Love to hear how it goes

With all due respect, why would you even consider going? The whole scenario is crazy. He’s married, he’s old, no picture, he’s an hour away, you met in a chat room ffs. What on earth would you benefit from this?

Be careful
Regardless if his wife checks his phone or not he should be able to share pics
Pics are easily deleted

Tell him to let you talk to his wife and when he does ask her if you should meet with her husband 🙄

What could go wrong. 🤪

Even if you don't care about your own safety (which I hope you will someday 💙), think about the impact on their relationship.

You have no right to get in between that, and being that he's a cheater, you already know he's a shitty and unreliable person.

You deserve better than that. You can find someone single who doesn't want a relationship just as much as you don't to have sex with.

If you met, NOT alone. Take a friend, like a big tall strong blue eyed male.

Like me 🌹

You are also married

Don’t!

Why can't he call you once from a pay phone just to let you hear him? Can't he call you from a work phone?

IMHO he wants one thing. Are you looking to give yourself to a sketchy stranger?

Never know. He might be perfect for you.

Extremely fishy. You need to at least see a live video of him with any app not just pics.

With these gas prices? ⛽

Don't. He has a wife. He doesn't respect her. He won't respect you either.

He sounds sketchy, be careful.

that's sketchy. so, no

You have already made up your mind. So why ask

Why are you meeting up with a married man? 😂

No. The whole situation is wrong, heck no. This is how people end up missing.

Not in your best interest, sounds shady.

If you made it to 40 being a ditz, why stop now?

I hear a parade of red flags

no..have your avatar meet him first to report any anomalies

What is your gut telling you?

Meeting him would be absolutely insane. That you would even consider it is mind boggling.

no thats how people end up murdered or whatever

Only if you're a fan of Human Trafficking.

So you want to be a marriage breaker?

No pic or voice confirmation..no deal

No 😯😵

NO

No. 😶‍🌫

No 🌻

id say no