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Is this true? To a degree, generally speaking?

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Both genders are different, have different needs, wants and desires. And I don't believe there is a need to a demonize or vilifiy either one.

This is how God/ mother nature has it.

And then our social and societal setup and structure has made it worse or better.
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Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
If she needs all that support from a man then she’s actually a mess
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Jenny1234 you got that right!
GoFish ·
I'm not a sexist and i frown on those who are
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
@GoFish Good! I am not either!
GoFish ·
@Chiefjustice good ☺
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Yes it's true. We are extremely demanding.
kittee · 26-30, T
yes woman want children and security, men want sex in an alley for the rst of therlives
Monalisasmith86 · 36-40, F
@kittee I’m a woman and don’t want children
Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
@kittee Not All Men.
DDaverde · 61-69, M
Hahahahah !! So true !!
It's good that more and more women are starting to call this out.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
I agree with you.
I think it goes futher - different PEOPLE have different needs and wants and desires.

Its more abilty and trait based rather than gender.


Also...i really dislike when people do this: dis their own gender to passively get brownie points from the opposite gender.
....its fucking pandering 🙄
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@OogieBoogie I think both partners have to communicate what they're comfortable with and if they're not they need to be honest about it
But nobody can bring a long list of demands and wants and say you better do this .
Nobody's perfect and nobody meets every expectation.
@Justmeraeagain I think its so socially ingrained in our psyche, that when children or marriage happen - the role shift is this 'unspoken' expectation.

Suddenly you are not a couple anymore, you are man and wife or mum and dad....and some people think that means instantly a different dynamic.

Its silly.
Every relationship is different.
Not all women are natural mothers and great cooks, and not all men are career driven and 'fixit' masters.

I agree, independent communcation bereft of "what everybody else does" is really important.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@OogieBoogie I think accepting each other being kind to each other are more important than the roles that you play... I have never made it my business to tell another couple how to handle their relationship it's none of my business.
Monalisasmith86 · 36-40, F
So you’re saying a woman can’t be a mechanic without being feminine and a guy can’t be a manicurist without being gay ?
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
@Monalisasmith86 no, i didnt say that!
Musicman · 61-69, M
I definitely agree with you.

 
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