I Am a Pisces
A Pisces wildest dream will always lead to an intimate relationship that's built on nothing but trust, honesty and sheer passion.
26-30, M
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bbfeels
the emotional depth of water signs goes beyond what most people could even think to comprehend.. :)
Valencia · 26-30, M
Yess!!
Valencia · 26-30, M
It kind of sucks thi
Valencia · 26-30, M
Tho*
bbfeels
It is both a blessing and a curse.
Valencia · 26-30, M
1% blessing and the rest is a curse. Because you don't want to show too much emotion so you often hold them back
bbfeels
True.. I think coming to terms with the person you are, allowing yourself to be immersed in your emotions, and finding someone who is on the same wavelength that you are is vital to your mental and spiritual wellbeing though so that you don't feel like you're drowning in yourself. Otherwise you're just left in a state of angst wondering what to do with yourself. (If that makes any sense)
Valencia · 26-30, M
Yes but what to do until that person comes is the whole deal. Like we are so immersed in what to do's when we are attached to someone. I.e. How to to treat them, the small things and gestures, the surprises and gifts and all. But until we find that person we tend to just daydream and drift apart from our reality to an alternate reality we create where everything is just perfect. Some of us may mot even encounter that special person ever, some gave up on love and all those thoughts they day dream about are what keeps them alive from the inside. In pain, but alive. Hopefully it's not like that for everyone else.
bbfeels
Well, you can't rely on another person for happiness. That comes from within. But it sounds like you are lonely and long for a romantic partner to give your whole heart to.... Just trust that you will find them someday. In the meantime, try not to feel too defeated about it. Don't feel like less of a person just because you haven't found "the one". I think people like us are sensitive to things like that.
Valencia · 26-30, M
... So you understand what it feels like.. :') I'm sorry if you had to go through that or if you still are, it sucks but it will change, you seem like a genuinely caring person who is always misunderstood. It was never about having the one, because i always believed that if i wanted someone then I have a lot of work to do on myself first. "Before you ask for an amazing girl, be sure to be everything she deserves" so i don't rely on anyone for my happiness anymore, used to yeah, but it's not the case anymore. Its just me in my life nowadays.
bbfeels
I'm actually in a relationship and I have been for like.. 8 years now. Fortunately the things I just talked about are a nonissue for me. But you remind me a little bit of a friend that I have... And I said some similar things to him. I just figured maybe I would try to give you some advice/reassurance based on some of your posts that I skimmed through. I just know sometimes it's really easy to feel lonely, discouraged and depressed when you're a deeply emotional person. And I just wanted to remind you that you're not alone in what you experience. :)
Valencia · 26-30, M
Yeah it can get really hard but hard moments are what's being strong is all about. Thank you. :)