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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
So if you have not had a successful long term relationship for 3 years or more (to pluck a random timeframe from the sky fairies), you are apparently personally powerful in a transformative transpersonal way?
Given that I've been not in a relationship now for about 3 yrs I should be 'strong', but I don't feel it. I feel incomplete.
Given that I've been not in a relationship now for about 3 yrs I should be 'strong', but I don't feel it. I feel incomplete.
StarletPea · 22-25, F
@zonavar68 I don’t mean this in a bad way but it’s probably because you’re desperate for a significant other. The relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship. Treat yourself like you would treat that special someone
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@StarletPea Thanks. I wish I had the self-worth to do that. Most of the time it feels like I'm just floating with no idea what I'm supposed to be doing. Being burnt by the mum of my 3 y/o daughter and other experiences make for a very negative perspective on relationships and especially on the purpose of sex.