I Want To Write My Random Thoughts And Feelings

Trust is the most dangerous thing you can give of yourself to someone.
Even the people we love.
But that begs to question, can we love fully without full trust?
Can love exist when people cannot be trusted or is it just a transaction to live with until it loses its function?
Or is it that we do not really understand what love is and jump into the first thing that makes us feel good and call it love? And when it inevitably fails, we believe love to be what is bad. But how can something so good be bad?
The fault seems to be in the way we perceive love to be.
So what really is love?

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SW-User

Yes we can fully love without trusting in them.
Sometimes you know you can't trust in certain people but still love them because it's a feeling that emerges from you regardless of their actions, a mixture of acceptance and care, and knowing that you are vulnerable because you love them .... Despite not being able trust in them, in their words in their actions. Accepting another as they are is love.

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SW-User

@UndeadPrivateer very eloquently said, I agree completely it can't be chosen... It must be interesting talking to her 😍

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

@SW-User She's been through a lot in her 82 years, lots of wisdom in there. I love her dearly.

SW-User

@UndeadPrivateer how nice that you have her in your life 🌺 embrace her 🥰.

Vivaci

I was just going to say what Sara had said.

Trust and love go hand in hand. Sometimes you have both in a relationship. But most couples tend to forget that Love is a continuous process.

Love is when you think of the other person's feelings before you think bout yourself.

https://similarworlds.com/2979715-I-Like-to-Write-From-Time-to-Time/2330680-Love-is-a-baby-When-you-fall-in-love-you-will

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

Love is the willingness to forego self for another.

SW-User

I can’t truly love anyone I can’t trust. :/

SW-User

@SW-User And then.. it goes in circles. I think we do not hear of success stories as much so it seems like people are always getting stabbed in the back or something along those lines.
But there is another thing that is also true. People form expectations on spoken word. But that spoken word is only good for a limited period of time.. and then people change and so do their words..and that can feel like a betrayal depending on how it happens.

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

It's complicated, to say the least.

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