I Am Sexually Confused

OK so I’ve been a lesbian basically since I’ve had a sex drive. I have always wanted to date women. I’ve consistently have wanted to date girls. But in my 20s, slowly..very, very slowly i’m starting to become attracted to men as well? And I have no idea why?

First off I would rarely feel any attraction to a man. Like maybe once every year I would see a boy in public or something and be like wow okay they’re hot. That started when I was like 20. Now i’m 23 and it’s gotten to the point where I do sex work online annnd yeah I can look at a naked dude and totally dig him.

So idk wtf is going on. But for the first time in the history of me being on this site, I actually switched my profile to bisexual, instead of lesbian. Maybe i’m just going through a phase of liking boys. I dunno, whatever. My vagina is weird.

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BoobooSnafu

I just had a thought.

Maybe, ... Maybe ot cpuld be that now ;.. Your attraction to someone is now delving deeper.

You know, firstly when really young - we see physical attraction - and that draws us to people. And in doing so...we find out more personal aspects that attract or us: similarities, taste, humour...maybe enough to activate sexual attraction.

Maybe.... Maybe you are looking for more. Needing more.
Maybe it's the deeper physical aspects you are now seeing... Beyond beauty, race and physical gender,... Maybe you are noticing up on the finer things we visually pick-up on - poise, confidence, awareness, Grace, intelligence,.. Maybe your attraction has gone beyond needing a physical parameter met.

Maybe you are being attracted to particular types of personalities, rather than particular type of gender.

I dunno - just a thought....