I Am Sexually Confused

Our sexuality is not set in stone as once believed. It's a vibrant, fluid, and dynamic thing, ever changing and expanding.

The question is, do you try to reign in it, and quash it, or do you follow it to see where it leads?

I know what my answer would be, and I think you will choose the same.

Have fun on the journey 😉 🤗

That's why I hate labels.... I don't see the need to define youself as a Lesbian or Bisexual or whatever. You are who you are.

Ok... This is just a stab in the dark... I'm only throwing it out there because people have mentioned it (never felt it myself)...

... Do you wonder if it's your subconscious tapping you on the psychological shoulder about, I dunno - possible children.

( God, I dont mean this to offend at all🙏)

im sure men will be happy about this post!! lol

I just had a thought.

Maybe, ... Maybe ot cpuld be that now ;.. Your attraction to someone is now delving deeper.

You know, firstly when really young - we see physical attraction - and that draws us to people. And in doing so...we find out more personal aspects that attract or us: similarities, taste, humour...maybe enough to activate sexual attraction.

Maybe.... Maybe you are looking for more. Needing more.
Maybe it's the deeper physical aspects you are now seeing... Beyond beauty, race and physical gender,... Maybe you are noticing up on the finer things we visually pick-up on - poise, confidence, awareness, Grace, intelligence,.. Maybe your attraction has gone beyond needing a physical parameter met.

Maybe you are being attracted to particular types of personalities, rather than particular type of gender.

I dunno - just a thought....

Its funny the way the mind and body change as we get older, just take it as it comes and don't try to over analyse the situation maybe just a stage

Maybe you’re pansexual. Hun I wouldn’t even label it. Just be yourself! It doesn’t matter which gender you like more or less.

Nothing wrong with that, enjoy your newfound desires, good luck

Maybe when younger you could not define yourself.

follow your heart, and whatever makes you happy

Thats good to hear !!