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I Take Relationships Seriously

I recently started to talk to my Ex Wife again. Both of us started getting them feelings again and it feels great! She cheated on me and it ultimately destroyed the relationship. We both have been very open and she was talking about her relationship with the man after we split. He was cheating on her the entire time. Part of me finds it hysterical, part of me wants to destroy this dudes very existence for hurting her the way he did.

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Maggimay · 46-50, F

Good luck, sometimes affairs bring people closer then they ever were.

Live , forgive, love

ItsJustMe3684 · 36-40, M

I forgive her, people do strange things when faced with mortality. I knew what it was and was very hurt but knew in time she would come back to me. It's been 2 years but it's what she needed to see what's important. I never had a doubt she was the love of my life, and I had alot of my own fun through the process.

Maggimay · 46-50, F

@ItsJustMe3684: a affair typically takes about 3 years to get over, you starting to see the wood from the trees so to speak.
Yes, people do, i know. Believe me i know.

If you do guys get together *fingers crossed* as i see that you would be very happy if you guys did. What happened, should stay in the past and not be used as a weapon in an argument.

ItsJustMe3684 · 36-40, M

@Maggimay: I have let it go, I don't think I could even entertain the idea of being with her if I didn't. I'm never one to bring up the past in an argument. It does no good in the present. As for fighting I have no more room for that in my life. As self centered as it might sound I now live by the if you don't like my point of view and my feelings are a problem for you there's the door. You don't want to walk out it then you better respect my feelings and listen to what I have to say.