I Take Relationships Seriously

I forgive her, people do strange things when faced with mortality. I knew what it was and was very hurt but knew in time she would come back to me. It's been 2 years but it's what she needed to see what's important. I never had a doubt she was the love of my life, and I had alot of my own fun through the process.

@ItsJustMe3684: a affair typically takes about 3 years to get over, you starting to see the wood from the trees so to speak.
Yes, people do, i know. Believe me i know.

If you do guys get together *fingers crossed* as i see that you would be very happy if you guys did. What happened, should stay in the past and not be used as a weapon in an argument.

@Maggimay: I have let it go, I don't think I could even entertain the idea of being with her if I didn't. I'm never one to bring up the past in an argument. It does no good in the present. As for fighting I have no more room for that in my life. As self centered as it might sound I now live by the if you don't like my point of view and my feelings are a problem for you there's the door. You don't want to walk out it then you better respect my feelings and listen to what I have to say.

I forgive her and I can trust her again. I believe in second chances and I believe she is genuine in her feelings. She realized her mistake and she won't do anything to lose me again.

Yeah I do, it wasn't a shock to me when she cheated. It was a very difficult time in her life. She had found out some very bad news about her health and didn't know how to handle it. She went off the deep end and made decisions that she normally wouldn't have. She was forced to live with them decisions. She has grown to regret them deeply and has apologized. She has been very vocal about how much she has missed me and how much she realized how important I was in her life.