Sometime in the Past (not written today)
This is unacceptable.
I want you to look at the time right now. It's 10:46pm. That is when you made it up the stairs, when I asked you at 10:42pm to come up the stairs. We had just finished a conversation about you taking up my valuable time, and you waited 4 minutes before coming up the stairs. It probably would've been more had Mike not stuck his head down the stairs to re-inform you that I was waiting.
This is not okay, and I will not stand for this.
I will be heard in my relationships. My voice, my opinion, my time, will matter and be of value.
You then finally followed me to the bedroom at 10:48pm. You found that the door was locked because I don't have time to wait for people.
I spent the entire day doing things for you. There was only one thing that I asked for and it was to play the game. You said after your workout, then it was after dinner, then it was after we looked up a campsite for you... in the middle of looking up campsites (which we agreed to keep to 15 minutes) you decided to reply to JPL by email, prolonging the amount of time used to look up campsites. Then you ask me to come downstairs with you to look at your computer for whatever reason... I'm still not sure, because there was no need to have my body there. You could've just sent me the information through FB messenger, as I typically do for you, when I want to get your opinion on information.
YOU ARE INEFFICIENT. AND WORSE, YOU ARE SUCKING UP MY TIME TOO!!!
I need you to show me that you understand that my time is valuable.
Btw, the "Me Day" that you tpld me you were giving me... all you did was give me a 30 minute massage. I made breakfast, lunch, and dinner that day, and I went to REI with you. How the hell is that a 'Me day'?
... sorry I got off topic, but it is now 11:08pm and you have still not messaged/called me to communicate to see what's going on or how I am. This is what I mean by your communication style sucking.
You came up at 11:13pm and I opened the door for you. You walked right past me and said, "I needed my phone charger." Then as you walked toward the door you asked me if I wanted something to drink.
I told you that I was fuming and you responded with a smirk and said, "Oh. Can I help?"
I then ignored you. You said "Okay" and left the room.
I ignored you because you again asked the wrong question. You should've asked "Why?"... First off, you should have understood why I was angry, but even if you didn't, you should try to understand why I'm feeling the way that I did. You never ask the right questions. You never care to understand how I am feeling or why I feel or react a certain way to things. You come to your own conclusion or assumption and you're content with that. It's frustrating and offensive that you won't even ask my opinion regarding my emotions when I am in the same room as you. It would make sense if I wasn't in the room, so you had no other information to go off of and therefore came to you're own conclusion, but I AM IN THE ROOM! Why do you continue to overlook me when I'm right in front of you!
I want you to look at the time right now. It's 10:46pm. That is when you made it up the stairs, when I asked you at 10:42pm to come up the stairs. We had just finished a conversation about you taking up my valuable time, and you waited 4 minutes before coming up the stairs. It probably would've been more had Mike not stuck his head down the stairs to re-inform you that I was waiting.
This is not okay, and I will not stand for this.
I will be heard in my relationships. My voice, my opinion, my time, will matter and be of value.
You then finally followed me to the bedroom at 10:48pm. You found that the door was locked because I don't have time to wait for people.
I spent the entire day doing things for you. There was only one thing that I asked for and it was to play the game. You said after your workout, then it was after dinner, then it was after we looked up a campsite for you... in the middle of looking up campsites (which we agreed to keep to 15 minutes) you decided to reply to JPL by email, prolonging the amount of time used to look up campsites. Then you ask me to come downstairs with you to look at your computer for whatever reason... I'm still not sure, because there was no need to have my body there. You could've just sent me the information through FB messenger, as I typically do for you, when I want to get your opinion on information.
YOU ARE INEFFICIENT. AND WORSE, YOU ARE SUCKING UP MY TIME TOO!!!
I need you to show me that you understand that my time is valuable.
Btw, the "Me Day" that you tpld me you were giving me... all you did was give me a 30 minute massage. I made breakfast, lunch, and dinner that day, and I went to REI with you. How the hell is that a 'Me day'?
... sorry I got off topic, but it is now 11:08pm and you have still not messaged/called me to communicate to see what's going on or how I am. This is what I mean by your communication style sucking.
You came up at 11:13pm and I opened the door for you. You walked right past me and said, "I needed my phone charger." Then as you walked toward the door you asked me if I wanted something to drink.
I told you that I was fuming and you responded with a smirk and said, "Oh. Can I help?"
I then ignored you. You said "Okay" and left the room.
I ignored you because you again asked the wrong question. You should've asked "Why?"... First off, you should have understood why I was angry, but even if you didn't, you should try to understand why I'm feeling the way that I did. You never ask the right questions. You never care to understand how I am feeling or why I feel or react a certain way to things. You come to your own conclusion or assumption and you're content with that. It's frustrating and offensive that you won't even ask my opinion regarding my emotions when I am in the same room as you. It would make sense if I wasn't in the room, so you had no other information to go off of and therefore came to you're own conclusion, but I AM IN THE ROOM! Why do you continue to overlook me when I'm right in front of you!
31-35, F
