I Cheated

@PoetryNEmotion do i need to explain myself?

@RugDoll I am just curious. You needn't answer. You live in a society that is stringent. I will wonder what happens next. That's all. I am glad I am not living there. That's all. Bye. Good luck with your divorce.

@PoetryNEmotion thanks! Take care.

@RugDoll I truly do not understand the laws in your country. Here, you can only get an annulment for certain reasons, and if there are children involved, it's a lot harder to get an annulment. I also am having trouble understanding why you can be with your lover while you are married, but not after the annulment, and why you are okay with that circumstance.

@SerenitreeI agree with with you that the women who constantly steals men from friends is not a good women, who some may call a hoe. However, here in Aust, hoe, prostitute, hooker and slut are kind of used interchangeably, all referring to people who sleep around at least where I live. The main difference is prostitute and hooker are the ones who are paid to. The women who you described would just be a bitch or an asshole, one of the worst kinds possible. Possibly a slutty bitch depending on her number of partners in a month. More then 3 is when people draw the line here I think, but to be a slut is sometimes considered a good thing here.

@SDFORME numbers don't come into it for her. She can stay with one guy for months or even a year or more. What interests her is breaking a happy family up and bragging that she was able to do so. In my opinion the men she managed to tempt away from the girls/women they said they loved, were worthless.

A good man, truly in love with his woman wouldn't be tempted by her. She is a foul mouthed, ill mannered girl, who dresses slutty.

@GJOFJ3 You never judge, G? So you have no opinion?

@PoetryNEmotion I understand exactly what G is saying. He isn't judgmental. That doesn't preclude an opinion, just perhaps, his comfort level at stating it.

@PoetryNEmotion having an opinion and judging are two totally different things. In my option cheating is wrong, but I’m not going to sit in judgment of someone who does. When I was younger I was adamant about certain things, cheating being one of them. It’s still wrong, but we are human and we make mistakes, we sometimes abandon rules, morality, logic and act purely on emotion. That’s not always a bad thing, however it can lead to choices you never imagined happening. In my opinion we are not put here to sit in judgement of others. We are here to love, support, help and encourage. The judging will be done by the creator.

@shockerllnl exactly. I don't give a damn on what they think. This is my life. I'm just sharing my experience. Opinions are ok but please don't force me to say of do what they is right

@fairgame123 it's ok. I don't a give shit on what they think. Lol

@Cheesecake yes that's the worst part. When you can't be with someone you love. Truly love..

@HotMessExpress102 thank you. :)

@RugDoll uR WelCumes

@HotMessExpress102 It's nice of you to wish her a happy life. I do too.

[b]BUT[/b] how dare you apologize for others? That is beyond arrogant. You don't have the right to apologize for anything except something you, personally, have done.

@Serenitree i am still married. And yes, kids are involve.

@RugDoll So, basically, more than anyone else, the kids are being cheated, as they are the ones who will suffer most by any upset.

Unless

Does your husband already know, and is he okay with this? If so, then you're not cheating. You're having a fling, with his consent, in which case, the children shouldn't be too badly affected.

May I ask? Who is the man? How long have you known him?
You said something about the whole picture. Will you share that with us? If there is some extenuating circumstance, which is the rest of the picture, I'd like to understand.

One more question....... How long are the "moments" that you spend with him?
Sorry, I'm just trying to understand the whole picture and what it is that makes the moments worth the possible repercussions.

@RugDoll U is DelUsioNalz

@DonaldTrumpet probablys?? You'll nevers knowses

@RugDoll SweeTs

@Canicu69 you seem to have had a very active fantasy life.

@Serenitree actually there was no fantasies. It was get down and get dirty. Loved every minute of those relationships. My current girlfriend and I have been into swinging for quite sometime. Swinging is very enjoyable and satisfying.

@Canicu69 uh-huh

@DownTheStreet that keeps me stuck btw. Society tells me to stay in a marriage i was forced to be into.

@SW-User who plays victim here?