I Cheated

I did... Do i regret it? No. For those moments with him are the best times of my life. I don't care if people will judge me. That's what people do anyway, judge without even knowing the whole picture..it just sucks we cannot be together for good..

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Serenitree · F

Exactly who is being cheated? Your husband? His wife? Are there kids? Why can you not be together? Leave the spouse(s). Be together.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@Serenitree i am still married. And yes, kids are involve.

Serenitree · F

@RugDoll So, basically, more than anyone else, the kids are being cheated, as they are the ones who will suffer most by any upset.

Unless

Does your husband already know, and is he okay with this? If so, then you're not cheating. You're having a fling, with his consent, in which case, the children shouldn't be too badly affected.

May I ask? Who is the man? How long have you known him?
You said something about the whole picture. Will you share that with us? If there is some extenuating circumstance, which is the rest of the picture, I'd like to understand.

One more question....... How long are the "moments" that you spend with him?
Sorry, I'm just trying to understand the whole picture and what it is that makes the moments worth the possible repercussions.