I Cheated

I did... Do i regret it? No. For those moments with him are the best times of my life. I don't care if people will judge me. That's what people do anyway, judge without even knowing the whole picture..it just sucks we cannot be together for good..

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PoetryNEmotion · F

The whole picture? If you cheat, it is wrong. Why can't you just be free? Too many excuses? You tell us. See what happens. There is right and wrong. You make the shades that colour them to what you like.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion no divorce here. Philippines the only country that doesn't allow divorce. You can google that mam. Get out? Yeah. Working on it mam.. Filed an annulment already. You can google that too if you want just so you have an idea.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion so you want me to color my life the way you like it?

PoetryNEmotion · F

@RugDoll It is a backwards country then. I am a Miss. I know what an annulment is. What is the problem? You needn't say, but you brought your posting here.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion a lot. My lawyer's taking care of it

PoetryNEmotion · F

@RugDoll So you cheated. And you cannot be together after the divorce as well. That's a real mess you have.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion i don't really plan to be with someone after the annulment. I want to somehow start all over again. Do it my way this time. Without asking permission from my parents for example. I am an adult so i can do that right?

PoetryNEmotion · F

@RugDoll Did they make you marry him in the first place? There is no do-over. You can start with more knowledge, that's for sure.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion got pregnant. So accdg to society i have to get married so that my child won't be illegitimate

PoetryNEmotion · F

@RugDoll I suppose abortion or adoptions are not permitted? Do you have skills to make a living with having children? Will you get financial support from your soon-to-be-ex? I think sex outside of marriage is not allowed either there.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion do i need to explain myself?

PoetryNEmotion · F

@RugDoll I am just curious. You needn't answer. You live in a society that is stringent. I will wonder what happens next. That's all. I am glad I am not living there. That's all. Bye. Good luck with your divorce.

RugDoll · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion thanks! Take care.