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Do you fear others see you

the way you see yourself?
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Eclipsed · M
Yes. I spend a lot of logic energy countering the emotional narrative. It wears me out.
Trippy · F
@Eclipsed Well said ❤️
The world sees me much different than I really am

I really am nice
Trippy · F
@questionWeaver I kinda see that though 🙂
summersong · F
A good chunk of the time.
Trippy · F
@summersong Me too
EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M
I used to, I couldn't look people in the eye. I thought they would see right through me and know all my secrets. For years I wore a baseball cap everywhere so I could hide my eyes.

Nowadays, I don't fear it. I don't want it just like I don't want people in my house, I don't want people seeing the result and making all kinds of theories as to why I see myself that way.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
nope
I keep myself pretty well hidden
SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
Yes. worse still, I fear they see me as worse than I see myself
Trippy · F
@SarahAndSamantha Relatable ❤️
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
Trippy · F
@BananaBrown me too ❤️
SolGryn · 31-35, M
I'm working on that. Getting stronger every day. I wish you the best
Trippy · F
@SolGryn Me either. Like said... New day tomorrow 🙂
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@Trippy I wish you the best
Trippy · F
@SolGryn You as well ❤️
Nude? No I'm cool with it. 🤣
Trippy · F
@FreeSpirit1 I've no doubt haha❤️
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Nope not anymore and even when I did they saw the opposite of what I saw which I am now able to see for myself
Trippy · F
@Prettybratbi1tch Awesome ❤️
no because i see myself more positive than what some others say or do to me.
Trippy · F
@undetermined Awesome ❤️
Sometimes I wish they would. I would be even more alone then, but I wouldn't have to fight the monster so hard.
Lilnonames · F
May I ask why? @Trippy
Trippy · F
@FlowersNButterflies Just is. Thinker in my head finds lots of reasons. 🤷‍♀️
Introvert? @Trippy
Pfuzylogic · M
It would take a lot of pain and insight to interpret what they saw,
Freeranger · M
That particularly part of me are the only time I play cards, and those I play very close to my chest. But no...I came to the realization some time ago that you can't control how you're perceived, so....why torture yourself over things beyond your control. Besides, those "others" I have relationships with are people who are fine with who I am. Why would anyone subject themself to anything else?
[media=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WC5FdFlUcl0]
LadyJ · F
No..i am who i am
Trippy · F
@LadyJ Awesome ❤️ An outlook I aim for 🙂
LadyJ · F
@Trippy you'll get there ❤
Trippy · F
@LadyJ 🤗
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
No. That would be easier to live with
Trippy · F
SW-User
No. It turns out they saw me as so much worse than I saw myself. I’m over it.
No I don't really care..
Trippy · F
Iwillwait · M
I hope not.
rachelsj · 22-25, F
God, I hope not....
There’s no big critic than your own mind.
Trippy · F
@SirenCalledLuce Truth❤️
I fear people see me as a loser as someone not even worth socializing with
@Trippy can I give you a return hug
Trippy · F
@ExperienceDLT Certainly 🙂
@Trippy 🤗🙂
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Lilnonames · F
Nope i have no fear
Lilnonames · F
@Trippy dont understand
Trippy · F
@Lilnonames Free THEN, perhaps. You profess to be free of all fear. Free.
Lilnonames · F
@Trippy thats me

 
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