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Thrown away

Today my marriage ended. It feels like my world has been turned upside down. I haven’t had time to process it because I’m too busy pretending it will be okay for my kids, but I’m devastated. I didn’t just lose apart of my family but my best friend.
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WillaKissing · 56-60, M
How did this happen? I know how mine happened, and believe me when she left I was Damn well relieved. I only hurt for my kids sake as well.
Fulcrum · 31-35, F
@WillaKissing A tiny argument about nothing turned into him telling me everything wrong with me including I could stand to lose a few pounds, and it has become a chore for him to become intimate with me.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Fulcrum That sounds pretty crappy on his part.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@Fulcrum He is having an affair, and is picking you apart for his infidelity. My ex-wife is Bi-polar and once through nursing school and working part time as an RN BSN she found a single rich older doctor she worked with as her soulmate. I was shit after that. She went from 155 pounds right back down to her 110 pound marital weight and got a breast job to catch him after throwing me to the curb! I was happy to be rid of the Bi=polar not knowing what was next BS, and my freedom of her.
SW-User
@Fulcrum That son of a bitch.
Fulcrum · 31-35, F
@DrWatson The part that hurts the most. I thought we were in a good space.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Fulcrum I know from experience what it feels like when you don't see it coming! ( In my case it was just a breakup, not a divorce.) It hurts! 😟
Fulcrum · 31-35, F
@WillaKissing He was so cold and angry when he told me this. I'm not sure why he would be so angry towards me if he was sleeping around.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@Fulcrum His own Guilt is coming out towards you because he knows he betrayed you, so he is painting you as the bad guy in his mind for his stupid betrayals to clear his conscience for cheating and wanting a divorce. I have been there and through it. Nothing you have done, just all him.